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Just a quick update my current EX is giving birth today and has flip flopped 3 times on whether she wants me there or not. I just told her I would come on visiting hours she seems angry at my dis-interest. I just won't deal with the flip flopping and I'm not going to show up for her to ask me to leave because she changes her mind.

My other EX in morocco called and asked about the baby and we talked for a 30 minutes. She then asked if she could borrow $150 :rolleyes: because she ran out money. Apparently she dropped her son off with her mom and is tourist city just living it up on her ex husbands dime. She got pissed when I said no and then she started to insult my other EX and got to the point where she was saying "I don't even know why I am mad I her I don't even know her". I cut her off and told her she can't insult her that is the mother of my child and she has no place. I told her she has no right to speak ill of me because I told her I couldn't help her. I had to be blunt and told her I am not her responsibility we are not together to call her husband or her family. She then tried to claim she was in a depression and her mother was causing part of it etc etc etc. Told her again she is not my responsibility. Then she brought up the tickets she bought me for morocco and how she was going to spend time with me how that is such a great gift her time. I legit laughed at this over the phone and said with that attitude I don't even know if I should see you maybe I will see some other girls. Zineb in Rabat, Najar in Marrakech, Rajei in Tangier there are plenty of "gifts" in morocco.

She went nuclear at first but calmed down and said she really wanted to see me. I'm really a coin toss right now when I do go to morocco if she worth seeing or some other women. Right now though goals are Baby, Fitness, Education then Morocco borders should open in 2-3 months.
Maybe i missed something but your ex is giving birth to your child and you won't go because of her changing mind? A woman is in meltdown mode from all the hormones during this time. Of course she wants you there.
Don't YOU have any urge to be there at this special moment in your life, dude w t f? They would have to put an restraining order on me to keep me away from an event like that. This is about your child and you and not about the ex and i'm 100% sure you will regret that you're not there for the rest of your life because you were a little hurt or whatever.

And this Moroccan chick? That story sounds like a complete clusterfvck. Stop wasting your time. Think with your big head.
 

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Maybe i missed something but your ex is giving birth to your child and you won't go because of her changing mind? A woman is in meltdown mode from all the hormones during this time. Of course she wants you there.
Don't YOU have any urge to be there at this special moment in your life, dude w t f? They would have to put an restraining order on me to keep me away from an event like that. This is about your child and you and not about the ex and i'm 100% sure you will regret that you're not there for the rest of your life because you were a little hurt or whatever.
I wanted to be their for this special moment I expressed that I wanted to be there. Trust me when I say she doesn't want me there the only reason she keeps flip flopping is because she knows it is important to me. In fact none of here "baby daddies" have been there because she never wanted them present only her mother.

After reading what you said bcude I gave her a quick text saying I'm available. In her ideal world she wants me there only for the last 5 minutes of birth and to cut the cord. The ball is in her court if she wants me their or not. I won't feel guilty, I expressed my will to be there what she chooses is up to her.
 

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I wanted to be their for this special moment I expressed that I wanted to be there. Trust me when I say she doesn't want me there the only reason she keeps flip flopping is because she knows it is important to me. In fact none of here "baby daddies" have been there because she never wanted them present only her mother.

After reading what you said bcude I gave her a quick text saying I'm available. In her ideal world she wants me there only for the last 5 minutes of birth and to cut the cord. The ball is in her court if she wants me their or not. I won't feel guilty, I expressed my will to be there what she chooses is up to her.
What happened in the end?
I hear you, at the same time women don't know what they want. One moment this, the next this until they drive you crazy because they go after what they feel at the moment. That's why you as a man think rationally and take these decisions for her. Sounds like she was on the fence about this one and certainly wouldn't have mind if you decided to be there, no questions asked. It's not like she's repulsed by you. She still wants to wants to spend a quality weekend with you after she's been giving birth from the looks of it.

Something i hope you won't do if she excluded you from this birth. Then she's pure evil and should be treated as such.
 

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What happened in the end?
She flipped flopped back to wanting me there and I showed up they wouldn't let me go up to the maternity ward because of Covid-19 I was running a temperature of 100.5 at the time. I'm a bit bitter because she had she wanted me there from this morning I would have been allowed in because, I didn't have a temperature in the morning. She did however give the phone to her mom and face timed the whole thing and I screen recorded it as it happened down in hospital lobby.

Then when the fever was gone they didn't allow me up to visit because it wasn't visiting hours and they only allow one designated visitor after the birth (Which is stupid because they allow 2 people for the birth) and her mother was already designated the one since she was there at the birth. So today at 3pm-7pm I will see my son for the first time.
 

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NC - Day 4

This girl said something that I think was disrespectful. I told her not to talk to me like that but in a fun way she said "I will" (She was drunk). To this I did not talk to her the entire time we were along spend the time watching football. After I was done, i asked the waiter to pack rest of the stuff and I started moving to which she joined and i dropped her home and I left. Din't speck to her since then.

She's about 8 years younger to me. Been on NC before as well for a week wherein she reeled me in.

Just received a text few mins back saying "You have until tonight to text or call me, if you don't there is no coming back". She had told me during the last NC too that if next time you disappear that is the last time its the end.

What do you'll think?
So after a few messages from her and me not responding and ignoring it today I found out that she has deleted me and my common friends that we use to hang out with from all social media. I kind of missed her today hence hopped in to check on her profile and boom!
 

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