Maybe i missed something but your ex is giving birth to your child and you won't go because of her changing mind? A woman is in meltdown mode from all the hormones during this time. Of course she wants you there.Just a quick update my current EX is giving birth today and has flip flopped 3 times on whether she wants me there or not. I just told her I would come on visiting hours she seems angry at my dis-interest. I just won't deal with the flip flopping and I'm not going to show up for her to ask me to leave because she changes her mind.
My other EX in morocco called and asked about the baby and we talked for a 30 minutes. She then asked if she could borrow $150 because she ran out money. Apparently she dropped her son off with her mom and is tourist city just living it up on her ex husbands dime. She got pissed when I said no and then she started to insult my other EX and got to the point where she was saying "I don't even know why I am mad I her I don't even know her". I cut her off and told her she can't insult her that is the mother of my child and she has no place. I told her she has no right to speak ill of me because I told her I couldn't help her. I had to be blunt and told her I am not her responsibility we are not together to call her husband or her family. She then tried to claim she was in a depression and her mother was causing part of it etc etc etc. Told her again she is not my responsibility. Then she brought up the tickets she bought me for morocco and how she was going to spend time with me how that is such a great gift her time. I legit laughed at this over the phone and said with that attitude I don't even know if I should see you maybe I will see some other girls. Zineb in Rabat, Najar in Marrakech, Rajei in Tangier there are plenty of "gifts" in morocco.
She went nuclear at first but calmed down and said she really wanted to see me. I'm really a coin toss right now when I do go to morocco if she worth seeing or some other women. Right now though goals are Baby, Fitness, Education then Morocco borders should open in 2-3 months.
Don't YOU have any urge to be there at this special moment in your life, dude w t f? They would have to put an restraining order on me to keep me away from an event like that. This is about your child and you and not about the ex and i'm 100% sure you will regret that you're not there for the rest of your life because you were a little hurt or whatever.
And this Moroccan chick? That story sounds like a complete clusterfvck. Stop wasting your time. Think with your big head.