soulforge
Master Don Juan
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I never ever check social media after a break up.Day 20- Ive been blocked on all social media that I hadnt previously blocked her on at the onset of the break up. I was secretly hoping she would reach out for my own validation (the old "I told you so!) but its actually good that she hasnt, because I need and deserve much more from someone in a relationship.
Its hard to look past the potential that was there and equally hard to forget the person she was the last 2 weeks before things ended, which was a shocker.
Been on several dates with several different chicks since the break up. All very attractive, one very weird in her behavior. I have another date set up tomorrow night with a very cute chick (date 1) and I am just going to enjoy the single life/dating game and if something develops, it develops.
For anyone who is spiritual and going through a break up......prayer helps in unforeseen ways and really does help.
Happy Hunting
The reason why they often block you, is because they are Butt Hurt, or they are playing the Victim Card, like most women do after a break.
If a girl has moved on, she has no real reason to block you, unless her ego is bruised because you didn't give chase.
Remember if they block you, eventually when things don't work out with the next dude, they will eventually unblock you.
Luckily I had the insight to pull the trigger and dump my ex, & remove her from my social media which is only Facebook. She was a chitty girlfriend with a TON of red flags.
A friend told me, that around 3 weeks ago, she was making posts on Facebook about, heartbreak & saying things like "No Man Will Ever Love Me"
I did actually love her, but she took me for granted & caused nothing but stress in my life.
So I sent her back to the streets.. I hear it's cold outhere lol