Master Don Juan
- Aug 1, 2013
I had a breakup with a decent girl once, and she flat out told me "don't put me on the pedestal." She knows herself better than you do, just because you don't see the negatives doesn't mean they aren't there. in fact she basically told me that she treated me much better than she normally treats guys. Still, I get it, things seem relative so you compare her to others and she is relatively better. Hell, one of my GFs cheated on me at LEAST 2x that I know of and she was like a unicorn compared to a lot of them lol
She was a good girl man.. All the qualities you want in a woman.. Loving, caring, obedient.
However nothing changes the FACT she was the long distance and with some ex issues..
It would have remained long distance for another 5 years, maybe even more.
It would have been foolish of me to wait that long on a woman.
I have to accept this is a blessing in disguise.. Otherwise I would have wasted many more years of my life.