KarmaSutra
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You turned yours on to type this fvcking nonsense?Centaurion said:Turn off your computer. Go out.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You turned yours on to type this fvcking nonsense?Centaurion said:Turn off your computer. Go out.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i'm on the sidelines scanning through this. i still don't see the point, but what reset said is the best angle. if your goal is to reach AFCs, then simply ignore all responses from the women and focus on the AFCs. i mean completely ignore the chicks. it would be a whole lot harder for the mods to ban you if you never ever respond to chick replies.reset said:It's fun to argue with women a little, but more fun to not care.
The guys over there may be more likely to notice what you're saying if you just kind of focus on them and ignore the women more or less. Even seeing a guy not be bowled over online with what a women is saying in itself would be a major example of a different mindset.
It's like you guys got drunk and raided the village and had a great time but now it's the next day and it's time to rebuild the village in your image.
Well I didn't copy any threads before they got deleted. But take my word for it, you would have to "PC" and couch your point to such a degree and it would still get debated and misconstrued by the posters there that your message would've been so water down to be totally lost.TheHumanist said:Can someone post a post or two of the treads that got deleted? I'm a bit interested in what it contained. My opinion have been that many of the ideas posed there (well when RT tried) was hurt by the way it was written that a few changes can change a lot of reception. Though I'm not sure and it got deleted before I got to read it, anyone got one?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.ketostix said:To give you some idea, if you said your goal was to have sex with a girl before developing a relationship and friendship, no matter how you worded it that belief was "creepy". .
LOL yeah I was using their own PC crap tactics and hypocrisy against them. The truth must have really struck a nerve with them. All i know is they were coming at me like crazy with all kinds of off the wall replies, and a Sosuaver stepped in for back up and made some brillant replies. I don't remember who it was. Was that you? Good job! I'm a little tiffed they deleted that thread though. It should've went in their archives for them to chew on for the ages lol.Mr.Positive said:Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.
Desdinova said:Don't know about you guys, but I could go for a romp with darlin coco![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think my possession of female genitalia prevents that from happening.KontrollerX said:You can stick around yourunintended.
If you think this place is alright there's no need to leave.
Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts wereyourunintended said:![]()
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Thanks for the entertainment guys. Don't worry, I won't stay here, I couldn't resist when I was sent the link. Good reading.
Enjoy.
Keto sweetness, I have missed you in the few hours I was off LSketostix said:Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts were.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.