KarmaSutra
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You turned yours on to type this fvcking nonsense?Centaurion said:Turn off your computer. Go out.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You turned yours on to type this fvcking nonsense?Centaurion said:Turn off your computer. Go out.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i'm on the sidelines scanning through this. i still don't see the point, but what reset said is the best angle. if your goal is to reach AFCs, then simply ignore all responses from the women and focus on the AFCs. i mean completely ignore the chicks. it would be a whole lot harder for the mods to ban you if you never ever respond to chick replies.reset said:It's fun to argue with women a little, but more fun to not care.
The guys over there may be more likely to notice what you're saying if you just kind of focus on them and ignore the women more or less. Even seeing a guy not be bowled over online with what a women is saying in itself would be a major example of a different mindset.
It's like you guys got drunk and raided the village and had a great time but now it's the next day and it's time to rebuild the village in your image.
Well I didn't copy any threads before they got deleted. But take my word for it, you would have to "PC" and couch your point to such a degree and it would still get debated and misconstrued by the posters there that your message would've been so water down to be totally lost.TheHumanist said:Can someone post a post or two of the treads that got deleted? I'm a bit interested in what it contained. My opinion have been that many of the ideas posed there (well when RT tried) was hurt by the way it was written that a few changes can change a lot of reception. Though I'm not sure and it got deleted before I got to read it, anyone got one?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.ketostix said:To give you some idea, if you said your goal was to have sex with a girl before developing a relationship and friendship, no matter how you worded it that belief was "creepy". .
LOL yeah I was using their own PC crap tactics and hypocrisy against them. The truth must have really struck a nerve with them. All i know is they were coming at me like crazy with all kinds of off the wall replies, and a Sosuaver stepped in for back up and made some brillant replies. I don't remember who it was. Was that you? Good job! I'm a little tiffed they deleted that thread though. It should've went in their archives for them to chew on for the ages lol.Mr.Positive said:Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.
Desdinova said:Don't know about you guys, but I could go for a romp with darlin coco![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think my possession of female genitalia prevents that from happening.KontrollerX said:You can stick around yourunintended.
If you think this place is alright there's no need to leave.
Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts wereyourunintended said:![]()
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Thanks for the entertainment guys. Don't worry, I won't stay here, I couldn't resist when I was sent the link. Good reading.
Enjoy.
Keto sweetness, I have missed you in the few hours I was off LSketostix said:Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts were.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.