"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Loveshack/SoSuave Discussion [Merged Threads]

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TooColdUlrick

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reset said:
It's fun to argue with women a little, but more fun to not care.

The guys over there may be more likely to notice what you're saying if you just kind of focus on them and ignore the women more or less. Even seeing a guy not be bowled over online with what a women is saying in itself would be a major example of a different mindset.

It's like you guys got drunk and raided the village and had a great time but now it's the next day and it's time to rebuild the village in your image.
i'm on the sidelines scanning through this. i still don't see the point, but what reset said is the best angle. if your goal is to reach AFCs, then simply ignore all responses from the women and focus on the AFCs. i mean completely ignore the chicks. it would be a whole lot harder for the mods to ban you if you never ever respond to chick replies.

2 cents worth.
 

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Can someone post a post or two of the treads that got deleted? I'm a bit interested in what it contained. My opinion have been that many of the ideas posed there (well when RT tried) was hurt by the way it was written that a few changes can change a lot of reception. Though I'm not sure and it got deleted before I got to read it, anyone got one?
 

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TheHumanist said:
Can someone post a post or two of the treads that got deleted? I'm a bit interested in what it contained. My opinion have been that many of the ideas posed there (well when RT tried) was hurt by the way it was written that a few changes can change a lot of reception. Though I'm not sure and it got deleted before I got to read it, anyone got one?
Well I didn't copy any threads before they got deleted. But take my word for it, you would have to "PC" and couch your point to such a degree and it would still get debated and misconstrued by the posters there that your message would've been so water down to be totally lost.

To give you some idea, if you said your goal was to have sex with a girl before developing a relationship and friendship, no matter how you worded it that belief was "creepy". (Keep in mind they have forums over there about married woman cheating, and posts about female teachers lusting after their underage students, but that's OK in their view). Basically their belief system is a man has no control over his destiny. The woman gets to choose thed man and if they have sex or anything else. And there's nothing you can do but make it clear to the woman that she's the center of your world. and once iqqi started telling everyone we were from sosuave and identifying us, we were summarily banned and our threads were all deleted no matter what they contained. That's the gyst of it in a nutshell.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ketostix said:
To give you some idea, if you said your goal was to have sex with a girl before developing a relationship and friendship, no matter how you worded it that belief was "creepy". .
Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.
 

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Keto...fwiw. You manifested a 10 page thread on "creepy". That's something to be proud of right there. I honestly do not think I've EVER laughed so hard responding to that threat.
LOL yeah I was using their own PC crap tactics and hypocrisy against them. The truth must have really struck a nerve with them. All i know is they were coming at me like crazy with all kinds of off the wall replies, and a Sosuaver stepped in for back up and made some brillant replies. I don't remember who it was. Was that you? Good job! I'm a little tiffed they deleted that thread though. It should've went in their archives for them to chew on for the ages lol.
 

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Penkitten is the only really active female poster other than yourself on the board Allaia.

She is well regarded by the majority of the membership here.

SunnyD is moderately active and another female poster.

And until recently it was believed iqqi was a female poster as well. She was hated by half the membership, tolerated by some, and loved by a minority of AFC crossdressers pretending to be DJ's.

LovelyLady, Blackwidow and Watertiger are also female posters that seem to appear every few months and then leave again.
 

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Desdinova said:
Don't know about you guys, but I could go for a romp with darlin coco :D
;) :p

Thanks for the entertainment guys. Don't worry, I won't stay here, I couldn't resist when I was sent the link. Good reading.

Enjoy.
 

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You can stick around yourunintended.

If you think this place is alright there's no need to leave.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX said:
You can stick around yourunintended.

If you think this place is alright there's no need to leave.
I think my possession of female genitalia prevents that from happening.

Although it is nice to be looking at blue instead of pink...
 

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Not at all.

We've got a pile of chick posters here such as Penkitten, LovelyLady, Watertiger and others.

We welcome everyone that is cool with our message.
 

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yourunintended said:
;) :p

Thanks for the entertainment guys. Don't worry, I won't stay here, I couldn't resist when I was sent the link. Good reading.

Enjoy.
Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts were :up: .
 

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wait...so how many "men" did we remove from this "feminized matrix"? and how many have told you, they've "seen the light"?, and switched over to this forum? or did you not tell them about this, just gave advice?
 

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Your welcome, but don't feel too flattered someone here said they'd bang you. There was so many chicks over there at LS that were totally bangable. The only problem is they weren't really the same girl that was in their avatars. And so they were just as phony as their posts were :up: .
Keto sweetness, I have missed you in the few hours I was off LS :p Such a shame to lose such good flirting material. Ah well.

I wouldn't know who isn't what their avatar shows them to be, but it isn't that important to me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thats right. Many of us believe that Iqqi may be a transsexual...

/duck
 

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Apparently we had a few members from LS join us because of our "raid".

I have no regrets!! If we can just show ONE person what this site has to offer then I'm glad we did it! That one person can show one other person or 10 other people or even 1000 people the great wisdom that resides here.

Even if we didn't reach anyone it was worth a try!

Why b!tch about things you THINK you can't change? Why not just try?

Wonderful speech VU!!
 

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neveragain was pretty hot.. but she's not into dating anyone right now. lol


yourunintended, even if you DID disagree with most of us here we wouldn't try to run you out. We have plenty of disagreements on this site. We all strive to find understanding in some form or another.


You can say anything here. We're not notorious for banning people who personally offend us.


The last person to be banned was LMS. He was extremely abrasive but when he was banned MOST of us were pissed.

Please stay!!
 

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Yeah the Sosuavers that have got a problem with this need to stop being negative nancies.

No one forced you to read or reply to these threads nor did anyone force you to join in the LoveShack raid.

What the brothers did at Loveshack was pure positivity and tough love.

It was a good thing so if you can't appreciate it at least kill your negativity about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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