Talking to this Filipina widow whom I’ve got some chemistry going on

[Travel memoir21]

Like I said, I’ve been ‘spinning plates’ The Christian way out here and talking to multiple women and evaluating my options, with this one, we seem to have some chemistry instead of the usual flirtations. This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative? She’s 34 years old by the way. I love her personality a lot, we seem to have plenty of chemistry and she’s the first Filipina I ran into who’s sarcastic. She reminds me of the latinas I dated in South Texas, a little feisty.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This woman wants literally nothing to do with you.

 

[Travel memoir21]

This woman wants literally nothing to do with you.

lol…that or she’s playing hard to get? Why does she ask ‘ are you still there?’ If I was away for a few hours…haha

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Travel memoir21 "This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative?"

Sounds more promising than persuading a mainstream Hollywood studio to green light a flick like Old School

in today's social climate, without a substantial portion of the public having a meltdown over 0:30-0:34, on account of it "pandering to the male gaze"

 

[Divorced w 3]

lol…that or she’s playing hard to get? Why does she ask ‘ are you still there?’ If I was away for a few hours…haha

Because she is toying you around for her personal enjoyment. She’s given you zero indication she’s interested.

you also cut out where she said something about being ‘brutally honest’, laughed at you and rolled her eyes multiple times, which from my perspective looks like you don’t want to admit that she said she has zero interest. Care to post that part?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Keep trying, man.

I can feel that you'll reel this one in soon.

Any day now...

Maybe offer to send her some money?

 

[Prepostereax]

Is your name Toro?
Like, when someone waves a red flag in your face, your first instinct is to charge at it

This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative? She’s 34 years old by the way.

She's catfishing you, man.

 

[Sega Genesis]

lol…that or she’s playing hard to get? Why does she ask ‘ are you still there?’ If I was away for a few hours…haha

What color are your texts? If you're in blue, you asked that, not her.

Any woman who responds to your text with "what do you want" without a haha, lol or wink to reflect teasing or being playful, is not interested.

Sorry man..

 

[Clockwerk50]

I am going to be honest, I’m starting to think this place might not be for you.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I am going to be honest, I’m starting to think this place might not be for you.

On the contrary, she’s not the only woman Im entertaining and spinning plates The Christian way. The girl below, I’ve also been talking and took her out to play Basketball the other day at the park. She’s really digging me and my big comfy retirement US Air Force pension and how I can really stretch the dollar over here Lol…just kidding, to be humble, the local dudes are still king over here because despite the money, you still need charm and social eloquence to get into the tight cliquey social circles out here.

To be humble once more, I admit Game and womenizing is not one of my strong suits, but I’m generally a happy dude - sober- no drugs, stimulants or alcohol….maybe some coffee and wine lol. I believe I can offer some dudes some pointers on inner peace, life contentment without needing a woman’s approval, wise worldly views on politics and anything else category. I consider this place as likening of an online Happy hour with a pub amongst Brothers, after a long day, you just want to shoot the sh1t and yes, that involves some male locker room talk about women. At the end of the day I enjoy the camaraderie of this place and looks forwards to my constructive criticism at my never ending plates I keep dating here on Tinder lol

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[The Duke]

Just so you can learn, I want you to lower your standards for looks and talk to some girls that have lower SMV than you. These girls will be more eager and willing to converse. Only then will you be able to see how a girl acts that is interested.

Most of these girls you talk to are above you in looks. And a guy with little experience will never get anywhere with them unless he pulls out his wallet.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I simply don't understand the point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just so you can learn, I want you to lower your standards for looks and talk to some girls that have lower SMV than you. These girls will be more eager and willing to converse. Only then will you be able to see how a girl acts that is interested.

Most of these girls you talk to are above you in looks. And a guy with little experience will never get anywhere with them unless he pulls out his wallet.

Well at least he doesn't have to worry about not getting laid

 

[Plinco]

I simply don't understand the point.

Try harder to understand! Remember, you'll either adapt or die.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Try harder to understand! Remember, you'll either adapt or die.

No point if you are planning to fvck any of them. OP is moving backwards in t EMS of adaptation if anything, not forward.

 

[Plinco]

No point if you are planning to fvck any of them. OP is moving backwards in t EMS of adaptation if anything, not forward.

I'm being a smart @ss

 

[Gamisch]

OP, I asked you specifically to adress why ths previous woman happened to be a negative person. Can you please anwer that?

Back to this thread; this one is hot. Too hot. This whole conversation is a humiliation ritual. Despite you being a honeypot in the Phils, never forget SHE got the ( golden?) V-gg. You might have a 100 matches, but she will have a THOUSAND. Including" white 6,5 in finance with a blue eyes" dudes.

Stop with the Christian bs!! Just try to get het laid ( for Christ sake). The Philippines is NOT a religious country, thus you won't find Christian women who are free/ available, hot, and gonna like you..it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.

You get a false sense of success because you use American money as leverage in a 3rd world shytehole. You either go all in or stop this bs all together. In the states you might end up with zero matches ( like most men) .

Just try to get laid dude

 

[BaronOfHair]

Sam Morill is on to something here https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1GrwsS53sp/

AI has the power to clue many men(OP included) in on the facts of life, surely as that batch of less than potent penobarbitral has graced Christa Pike with a fresh appreciation of luck