"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Talking to this Filipina widow whom I’ve got some chemistry going on

Travel memoir21

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Like I said, I’ve been ‘spinning plates’ The Christian way out here and talking to multiple women and evaluating my options, with this one, we seem to have some chemistry instead of the usual flirtations. This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative? She’s 34 years old by the way. I love her personality a lot, we seem to have plenty of chemistry and she’s the first Filipina I ran into who’s sarcastic. She reminds me of the latinas I dated in South Texas, a little feisty.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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@Travel memoir21 "This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative?"

Sounds more promising than persuading a mainstream Hollywood studio to green light a flick like Old School
in today's social climate, without a substantial portion of the public having a meltdown over 0:30-0:34, on account of it "pandering to the male gaze"
 

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lol…that or she’s playing hard to get? Why does she ask ‘ are you still there?’ If I was away for a few hours…haha
Because she is toying you around for her personal enjoyment. She’s given you zero indication she’s interested.

you also cut out where she said something about being ‘brutally honest’, laughed at you and rolled her eyes multiple times, which from my perspective looks like you don’t want to admit that she said she has zero interest. Care to post that part?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is your name Toro?
Like, when someone waves a red flag in your face, your first instinct is to charge at it
This one is a widow though with an eleven year old sickly son suffering from Autism. Is this bad or a negative? She’s 34 years old by the way.
She's catfishing you, man.
 

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lol…that or she’s playing hard to get? Why does she ask ‘ are you still there?’ If I was away for a few hours…haha
What color are your texts? If you're in blue, you asked that, not her.

Any woman who responds to your text with "what do you want" without a haha, lol or wink to reflect teasing or being playful, is not interested.

Sorry man..
 
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I am going to be honest, I’m starting to think this place might not be for you.
On the contrary, she’s not the only woman Im entertaining and spinning plates The Christian way. The girl below, I’ve also been talking and took her out to play Basketball the other day at the park. She’s really digging me and my big comfy retirement US Air Force pension and how I can really stretch the dollar over here Lol…just kidding, to be humble, the local dudes are still king over here because despite the money, you still need charm and social eloquence to get into the tight cliquey social circles out here.

To be humble once more, I admit Game and womenizing is not one of my strong suits, but I’m generally a happy dude - sober- no drugs, stimulants or alcohol….maybe some coffee and wine lol. I believe I can offer some dudes some pointers on inner peace, life contentment without needing a woman’s approval, wise worldly views on politics and anything else category. I consider this place as likening of an online Happy hour with a pub amongst Brothers, after a long day, you just want to shoot the sh1t and yes, that involves some male locker room talk about women. At the end of the day I enjoy the camaraderie of this place and looks forwards to my constructive criticism at my never ending plates I keep dating here on Tinder lol

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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