The Northman
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Speak up!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
T O R O N T O !
- Thread starter The Northman
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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fvck, i just moved into downtown toronto.
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Moving there in....five years and a half 
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
The Northman
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Downtown, 24! How's your game?Quiksilver said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Quiksilver
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Game is comfortable and relaxed. I'm not a jukebox, though I don't hide in a corner either.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
DaviiB
New Member
Hey guys - I'm 19, 'n downtown for the summer. My game is more of the high energy type. A long way from perfect, but I suppose I understand the basics. Lemee know if any of you guys want to meet up.
DB
DB
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Im in toronto on monday Im up for some approaches or whatever, need big amounts of practise, thats my last step to become good at this, so yeah whos up for it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GaryUranga
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k Im in etobicoke(lakeshore) actually but I go downtown everyday, I wanna workon my convo and approach skills, lets get a group going for this
GaryUranga
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my club game is 0 cause Im almost never gaming in clubs, anyways I might be up for it next weekend where to anyways? I went to a club on friday and I got slapped out of the blue
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hi everyone!
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
Afrodisiac21
Don Juan
So have any of you guys actually met up?
Maestro Monk
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Met one of my best buddies (Krassus) through this site. I'm down for doing street/beach sarging with a quality wing.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.