The Northman
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Speak up!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
T O R O N T O !
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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fvck, i just moved into downtown toronto.
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Moving there in....five years and a half 
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
The Northman
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Downtown, 24! How's your game?Quiksilver said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Quiksilver
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Game is comfortable and relaxed. I'm not a jukebox, though I don't hide in a corner either.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
DaviiB
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Hey guys - I'm 19, 'n downtown for the summer. My game is more of the high energy type. A long way from perfect, but I suppose I understand the basics. Lemee know if any of you guys want to meet up.
DB
DB
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Im in toronto on monday Im up for some approaches or whatever, need big amounts of practise, thats my last step to become good at this, so yeah whos up for it?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GaryUranga
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k Im in etobicoke(lakeshore) actually but I go downtown everyday, I wanna workon my convo and approach skills, lets get a group going for this
GaryUranga
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my club game is 0 cause Im almost never gaming in clubs, anyways I might be up for it next weekend where to anyways? I went to a club on friday and I got slapped out of the blue
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hi everyone!
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
Afrodisiac21
Don Juan
So have any of you guys actually met up?
Maestro Monk
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Met one of my best buddies (Krassus) through this site. I'm down for doing street/beach sarging with a quality wing.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.