The Northman
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Speak up!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
T O R O N T O !
- Thread starter The Northman
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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fvck, i just moved into downtown toronto.
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
King & Yonge.
Where are you at/how old/etc?
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Moving there in....five years and a half 
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
Might visit next year, or later, tho.
The Northman
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Downtown, 24! How's your game?Quiksilver said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Quiksilver
Master Don Juan
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Game is comfortable and relaxed. I'm not a jukebox, though I don't hide in a corner either.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
I'm no PUA, but I know the ropes. Good at DHVing, so-so at basic c+f, inexperienced at closing(i don't sarge much), most of my booty comes from social groups.
Pretty natural game, don't expect me to spit any routines though.
What scene you like? bars, clubs, lounges, day game, book stores, coffee shops, street game?
p.s. only 19, old enough for the bars but still young.
DaviiB
New Member
Hey guys - I'm 19, 'n downtown for the summer. My game is more of the high energy type. A long way from perfect, but I suppose I understand the basics. Lemee know if any of you guys want to meet up.
DB
DB
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Im in toronto on monday Im up for some approaches or whatever, need big amounts of practise, thats my last step to become good at this, so yeah whos up for it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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k Im in etobicoke(lakeshore) actually but I go downtown everyday, I wanna workon my convo and approach skills, lets get a group going for this
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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my club game is 0 cause Im almost never gaming in clubs, anyways I might be up for it next weekend where to anyways? I went to a club on friday and I got slapped out of the blue
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hi everyone!
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
I was just coming in here to post a thread about Toronto as I'm heading over there on a traveling mission from the UK for a bit.
I'm looking to hook up with a few randoms while i'm over there and work on my game a bit (which has lacked a bit since i've been stuck on this very small island) So if anyone fancies showing me around i'll be up for it!
I'm over next Tuesday, the 18th of September and i'll prob be staying at a hostel like GVB near the CN tower. Is Toronto Still good at that time of year?
So excited! :rockon:
Later
Afrodisiac21
Don Juan
So have any of you guys actually met up?
Maestro Monk
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Met one of my best buddies (Krassus) through this site. I'm down for doing street/beach sarging with a quality wing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.