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Ohh man, but my Cape of Ultimate Blinding Shiness totally kicks Charisma, giving me a +12 in Blinding Sexiness. How's that for Level 65, muhaha!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:Void said:I wondered if anyone noticed my sig![]()
My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.Even the dumbest things in the "Anything Else" section like what kind of toilet paper everyone uses are far more interesting to me than "field reports", a process by which quasi-normal interactions with women are artificially inflated in importance in a way very much similar to the laughable seriousness with which a Dungeons and Dragons fanatic spends 7 hours of his precious life drawing a detailed relief map of his half-elf's secret underground homeland.
I think dreamx has beat you by now.godsgifttowomen said:Fun Fact:
<~~~Most user names, lol
I was about to say the same thing. Perhaps you're the sosuave member who isn't a troll with the most usernames.Eternal said:I think dreamx has beat you by now.
HaHaHa finally you speak out young one. It doesn't matter the context, I still find it hilarious. Like "rofl" funny. I tried to fit the paragraph you just showed me in my sig but it won't fitGiovanni Casanova said:The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:
My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
haha, yeah I remember that also. Neo was a good poster actually, from what I remember.Shiftkey said:Woa the orignal DJ Bible still exists? I remember when it wasn't even a separate link, it was just Neophyte's idea and a thread![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yes we met hereValleyDJing said:Fun Fact: I am GOD!!!!
Jp, but I've got a question for penkitten and giovanni. You didn't meet through sosuave did you?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this link goes to veiw member list of feb 2003?Desdinova said:....here's a "fixed" link to the first troll attack. We've had a few members join since I originally posted this, so of course it shifted. Good thing I posted the date
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/memberlist.php?do=getall&page=105&pp=50&order=asc&sort=joindate
actually lms is prl who has always forewarned other members of the dangers of hors!@!!!!amoka said:So where does LMS fits in all these?
-The best whore hater on sosuave perhaps?
Really? I had no idea...seriouslypenkitten said:actually lms is prl who has always forewarned other members of the dangers of hors!@!!!!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.