"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ohh man, but my Cape of Ultimate Blinding Shiness totally kicks Charisma, giving me a +12 in Blinding Sexiness. How's that for Level 65, muhaha!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Void said:
I wondered if anyone noticed my sig :)
The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:

Even the dumbest things in the "Anything Else" section like what kind of toilet paper everyone uses are far more interesting to me than "field reports", a process by which quasi-normal interactions with women are artificially inflated in importance in a way very much similar to the laughable seriousness with which a Dungeons and Dragons fanatic spends 7 hours of his precious life drawing a detailed relief map of his half-elf's secret underground homeland.
My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.
 

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godsgifttowomen said:
Fun Fact:

<~~~Most user names, lol
I think dreamx has beat you by now.

How's the army?
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:



My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.
HaHaHa finally you speak out young one. It doesn't matter the context, I still find it hilarious. Like "rofl" funny. I tried to fit the paragraph you just showed me in my sig but it won't fit :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here's a historical tidbit:

On what popular thread did Anti-Dump make his final post?

...and no cheating....:nono:

(Jeapardy music playing in the background)
 

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mmmmm no idea which post that was....
I miss the sexual forum.... I loved that forum.

Wow... that link to the good ol colours and layout of sosuave really put a smile on my face...
good ol days
 

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About the AD post: Pook's "Kill That Desperation"

Hey mods, it's time to put everything from the "old school" members on The Archive, otherwise we will get some things deleted by time. It happened already to some Wildthang's posts.
 

CLOONEY

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Shiftkey said:
Woa the orignal DJ Bible still exists? I remember when it wasn't even a separate link, it was just Neophyte's idea and a thread :)
haha, yeah I remember that also. Neo was a good poster actually, from what I remember.

I also remember some dude who always used to complain that some guy stole his girlfriend? What was his name? Anyone remember? He posted a pic one time and he was like a big bald white guy? haha, that dude used to crack me up with his negativity!

Other great posters I remember and some still talk to today, Prosemont (the man never posts anymore, but he sure knew his stuff), xxblitz or something like that, a very insightful and straight to the point guy. Im sure there are a few more who gave great advice, but I cant think of their names off the top of my head. God damn Ive been around this place for a while, albeit, its becoming less and less frequent! I think Im down to like 1 post a day averaged out now! And most of them are on sport, lol. Back in the day, this place was like a fountain of knowledge I thought I would never find! God damn did it help my life!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fun Fact: I am GOD!!!!

Jp, but I've got a question for penkitten and giovanni. You didn't meet through sosuave did you?
 

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Oh no...

About the "Pubic Hairs" thread being in the Success Stories forum... That's my fault! :flowers:
 

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The first time I joined this back in 04 I was such a skinny kid, suffering from oneitis too. I read the whole bible from bulking to beliefs then I disappeared for 2 years. Like a butterfly from a cocoon... metamorphosis, transformation and success. I owed so much to the site I decided it was time to give something back. :)
 

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ValleyDJing said:
Fun Fact: I am GOD!!!!

Jp, but I've got a question for penkitten and giovanni. You didn't meet through sosuave did you?
yes we met here
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how about LMS

So where does LMS fits in all these?
-The best whore hater on sosuave perhaps?
 

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amoka said:
So where does LMS fits in all these?
-The best whore hater on sosuave perhaps?
actually lms is prl who has always forewarned other members of the dangers of hors!@!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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