Docs
Banned
Ohh man, but my Cape of Ultimate Blinding Shiness totally kicks Charisma, giving me a +12 in Blinding Sexiness. How's that for Level 65, muhaha!
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:Void said:I wondered if anyone noticed my sig![]()
My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.Even the dumbest things in the "Anything Else" section like what kind of toilet paper everyone uses are far more interesting to me than "field reports", a process by which quasi-normal interactions with women are artificially inflated in importance in a way very much similar to the laughable seriousness with which a Dungeons and Dragons fanatic spends 7 hours of his precious life drawing a detailed relief map of his half-elf's secret underground homeland.
I think dreamx has beat you by now.godsgifttowomen said:Fun Fact:
<~~~Most user names, lol
I was about to say the same thing. Perhaps you're the sosuave member who isn't a troll with the most usernames.Eternal said:I think dreamx has beat you by now.
HaHaHa finally you speak out young one. It doesn't matter the context, I still find it hilarious. Like "rofl" funny. I tried to fit the paragraph you just showed me in my sig but it won't fitGiovanni Casanova said:The context of that quote was that I had posted this paragraph earlier in the thread:
My opinion on that matter hasn't changed much, either.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
haha, yeah I remember that also. Neo was a good poster actually, from what I remember.Shiftkey said:Woa the orignal DJ Bible still exists? I remember when it wasn't even a separate link, it was just Neophyte's idea and a thread![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yes we met hereValleyDJing said:Fun Fact: I am GOD!!!!
Jp, but I've got a question for penkitten and giovanni. You didn't meet through sosuave did you?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
this link goes to veiw member list of feb 2003?Desdinova said:....here's a "fixed" link to the first troll attack. We've had a few members join since I originally posted this, so of course it shifted. Good thing I posted the date
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/memberlist.php?do=getall&page=105&pp=50&order=asc&sort=joindate
actually lms is prl who has always forewarned other members of the dangers of hors!@!!!!amoka said:So where does LMS fits in all these?
-The best whore hater on sosuave perhaps?
Really? I had no idea...seriouslypenkitten said:actually lms is prl who has always forewarned other members of the dangers of hors!@!!!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.