"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sweet :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, is there any security for the user accounts?
 
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Hey nerdy blueyes - thanks for putting me on your ignore list!

And no, I don't want to chat with 16 year old children to satisfy your voyeurism temdencies!!!!!!!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Last Man Standing said:
Hey nerdy blueyes - thanks for putting me on your ignore list!...
Pssssttttt.... He can't hear 'ya......
 

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Hahaha I'll say it!

Last Man Standing said:
Hey nerdy blueyes - thanks for putting me on your ignore list!

And no, I don't want to chat with 16 year old children to satisfy your voyeurism temdencies!!!!!!!
I hope I don't get a warning point for that.

I'll never do that again! Promise!

Edit: Maybe the mods should sticky this thread so people don't forget it?
 

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Why not just create a channel on an IRC server and have something a lot easier to use?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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kreuz said:
Why not just create a channel on an IRC server and have something a lot easier to use?
IRC is old school, not too many people would understand it (c'mon, it's text based). A year or two ago someone had a couple of "SoSuave Nights" on Yahoo that went over pretty well. I'd think that more people are using a Yahoo compatible IM than an IRC client.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Out of curiosity, is there any security for the user accounts?
they dont offer alot, its free. i can ban trools:)
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
IRC is old school, not too many people would understand it (c'mon, it's text based). A year or two ago someone had a couple of "SoSuave Nights" on Yahoo that went over pretty well. I'd think that more people are using a Yahoo compatible IM than an IRC client.
yahoo wont let me create a room. aim still lets you.
 

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Yeah, penkittens idea. I just saw her thread disappearing down the AE page and thought i'd throw up a couple more. It's a good idea, thanks for starting the chat thing..haven't had time to try it yet though

Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
Hahaha I'll say it!

Last Man Standing said:

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Hey nerdy blueyes - thanks for putting me on your ignore list!

And no, I don't want to chat with 16 year old children to satisfy your voyeurism temdencies!!!!!!!


I hope I don't get a warning point for that.

I'll never do that again! Promise!
Im amazed at how immature you guys are...A 25 year old and a 44 year old virgin telling an 18 year old kid that he's nerdy. Good job guys.

by the way thundermaverick, welcome to the ignore list. enjoy.
 

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chat is up and running and people are there willing to chat, but its horribly slow
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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