"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sosuave chat room
- Thread starter BluEyes
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KarmaSutra
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Props to Penkitten.
The chatroom is her idea and implementation.
The chatroom is her idea and implementation.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
http://www.gabbly.com/http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=15
it's been talked about many times....and it never really took off.
it's been talked about many times....and it never really took off.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I'll use it
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Out of curiosity, is there any security for the user accounts?
Last Man Standing
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Hey nerdy blueyes - thanks for putting me on your ignore list!
And no, I don't want to chat with 16 year old children to satisfy your voyeurism temdencies!!!!!!!
And no, I don't want to chat with 16 year old children to satisfy your voyeurism temdencies!!!!!!!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Pssssttttt.... He can't hear 'ya......Last Man Standing said:
ThunderMaverick
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Hahaha I'll say it!
Last Man Standing said:
I'll never do that again! Promise!
Edit: Maybe the mods should sticky this thread so people don't forget it?
Last Man Standing said:
I hope I don't get a warning point for that.
I'll never do that again! Promise!
Edit: Maybe the mods should sticky this thread so people don't forget it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
IRC is old school, not too many people would understand it (c'mon, it's text based). A year or two ago someone had a couple of "SoSuave Nights" on Yahoo that went over pretty well. I'd think that more people are using a Yahoo compatible IM than an IRC client.kreuz said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
they dont offer alot, its free. i can ban troolsFrancisco d'Anconia said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yahoo wont let me create a room. aim still lets you.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah, penkittens idea. I just saw her thread disappearing down the AE page and thought i'd throw up a couple more. It's a good idea, thanks for starting the chat thing..haven't had time to try it yet though
by the way thundermaverick, welcome to the ignore list. enjoy.
Im amazed at how immature you guys are...A 25 year old and a 44 year old virgin telling an 18 year old kid that he's nerdy. Good job guys.
by the way thundermaverick, welcome to the ignore list. enjoy.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
chat is up and running and people are there willing to chat, but its horribly slow
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.