You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Neanderthal SuperSolider was a mod who requested that allen just ban him.penkitten said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
girlproblems.com 1st and lameBig-J said:
I think it's funny that the first post is titled "I'm under 21 and my penis is broken"Big-J said:
Yeah, it was definately girlproblems.com. They hated us, we hated them. Some posters from here (me included) went over there to try and save a few AFCs. I don't think it worked though
I've heard about this war between this site and girlproblems. Wish I was there to see it.Desdinova said:I think it's funny that the first post is titled "I'm under 21 and my penis is broken"
Yeah, it was definately girlproblems.com. They hated us, we hated them. Some posters from here (me included) went over there to try and save a few AFCs. I don't think it worked though
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i was here, and the gp.com stuff was not alot to write home about.BlackJackal said:I've heard about this war between this site and girlproblems. Wish I was there to see it.
Sounded like a fun time to be honest. If they start another war, I'd be here.penkitten said:
do they even still have a site?BlackJackal said:
Desdinova said:I think it's funny that the first post is titled "I'm under 21 and my penis is broken"
Yeah, it was definately girlproblems.com. They hated us, we hated them. Some posters from here (me included) went over there to try and save a few AFCs. I don't think it worked though
.Chance reamed them out daily for a while overthere. That war was always a fun read IMO.penkitten said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.