I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You have your answer in your complaint...Anytime I have dated a plated a single mom, it's always the same fukin story.. Flakes!
WTF it's not even worthwhile wasting any time on these chicks.
Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.Anytime I have dated a plated a single mom, it's always the same fukin story.. Flakes!
WTF it's not even worthwhile wasting any time on these chicks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.Why do you even want a single mother?
Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.
I'm not trying to date a single woman who wants kids from me. Not happening.
I have been in a few LTRs with single Moms. 2 of the best relationships of my life.Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.
Try maintaining contact between dates more.
Also this will happen more if they sense all you want is to fvck them.
I don't.. I just want to bang themWhy do you even want a single mother?
That's why they flake.I don't.. I just want to bang them
Nah this girl has come out of a 20 year relationship recently.. She just wants to have funThat's why they flake.
This is her telling you she isn't interested.Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..
If I don't text her first.. Bich doesn't text me.. She expects me to do ALL the work.
I messaged her on Sunday and arranged a meet for Friday.. Only spoke once at work..and zero text messages in between.
She can get fuked if she thinks I will do all the texting and all the date arranging too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..This is her telling you she isn't interested.
You refuse to listen.
Actions brother...actions. In her mind you are the guy that will always be there for her and she will hit you up when she has nothing better to do. Or you are the backup or backup to the backup guy.You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..
I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.
Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.
But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
What many guys forget is that being alpha doesn't mean having the best from both sides. Women want beta comfort and alpha dominance so if you say you banged her occasionally and she svcked you off, doesnt mean she'll text you all time etc.You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..
I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.
Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.
But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.