Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Single Mothers Flake Like Crazy!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had the same wanted to meet. Something with child. No response. Next day doest want to meet anymore. Some are bat**** horny though. It’s all has to do with their iq levels I suppose not knowing their aren’t worth **** anymore on the smv.
 
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I usually lie to milfs about my age. I'm 22 but I look 26-27 so I get through. I guess they want the D asap.
 
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soulforge said:
Anytime I have dated a plated a single mom, it's always the same fukin story.. Flakes!

WTF it's not even worthwhile wasting any time on these chicks.
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Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.

Try maintaining contact between dates more.

Also this will happen more if they sense all you want is to fvck them.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.

I'm not trying to date a single woman who wants kids from me. Not happening.
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Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?
 
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Baibars said:
Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?
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I have been in a few LTRs with single Moms. 2 of the best relationships of my life.

Never lived together tho although I wouldn't preclude that...the kids only are with them usually half the time, the other half with the Dad. Same with my kids.

Definitely don't get involved with unstable Dad situations. That WILL cause drama and problems for you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.

Try maintaining contact between dates more.

Also this will happen more if they sense all you want is to fvck them.
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Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..

If I don't text her first.. Bich doesn't text me.. She expects me to do ALL the work.

I messaged her on Sunday and arranged a meet for Friday.. Only spoke once at work..and zero text messages in between.

She can get fuked if she thinks I will do all the texting and all the date arranging too.
 
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Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..

If I don't text her first.. Bich doesn't text me.. She expects me to do ALL the work.

I messaged her on Sunday and arranged a meet for Friday.. Only spoke once at work..and zero text messages in between.

She can get fuked if she thinks I will do all the texting and all the date arranging too.
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This is her telling you she isn't interested.

You refuse to listen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is her telling you she isn't interested.

You refuse to listen.
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You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..

I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.

Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.

But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
 
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You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..

I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.

Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.

But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
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Actions brother...actions. In her mind you are the guy that will always be there for her and she will hit you up when she has nothing better to do. Or you are the backup or backup to the backup guy.

I am not saying you can't bang her...you probably could but honestly will it be worth the amount of effort? In my experience it never is.
 
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The woman's brain goes through a substantial change when she has given birth, a big change, post and pre birth are two completely different people
 
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I don't have that much experience with single moms. I could see single moms being rather flaky. A child is another built in excuse to flake.

The childless women that I have typically interacted with have been flaky. In the last 9 years, these women I've been interacting with have typically been 25-35 at the time I've been interacting with them. Many of them are career oriented and will flake for work reasons. Or they flake just because I interacted with them on a swipe app and they have countless options.

Think about all the things that a man has to compete with for a woman's attention: Her job, her pets, her friends, her family, her hobbies/activities. That's a lot for a childless woman. A single mom has all those plus 1 or more children and possibly baby daddy issues.
 
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soulforge said:
You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..

I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.

Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.

But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
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What many guys forget is that being alpha doesn't mean having the best from both sides. Women want beta comfort and alpha dominance so if you say you banged her occasionally and she svcked you off, doesnt mean she'll text you all time etc.
I mean you're not Mr.dependable. You want to bang her and whenever she "needs" you, she fvcks you. When she needs a guy for another need of hers, she Talks to him.
This is how women operate.
Why do you expect more bru? Chill.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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