When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You have your answer in your complaint...Anytime I have dated a plated a single mom, it's always the same fukin story.. Flakes!
WTF it's not even worthwhile wasting any time on these chicks.
Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.Anytime I have dated a plated a single mom, it's always the same fukin story.. Flakes!
WTF it's not even worthwhile wasting any time on these chicks.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.Why do you even want a single mother?
Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.
I'm not trying to date a single woman who wants kids from me. Not happening.
I have been in a few LTRs with single Moms. 2 of the best relationships of my life.Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.
Try maintaining contact between dates more.
Also this will happen more if they sense all you want is to fvck them.
I don't.. I just want to bang themWhy do you even want a single mother?
That's why they flake.I don't.. I just want to bang them
Nah this girl has come out of a 20 year relationship recently.. She just wants to have funThat's why they flake.
This is her telling you she isn't interested.Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..
If I don't text her first.. Bich doesn't text me.. She expects me to do ALL the work.
I messaged her on Sunday and arranged a meet for Friday.. Only spoke once at work..and zero text messages in between.
She can get fuked if she thinks I will do all the texting and all the date arranging too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..This is her telling you she isn't interested.
You refuse to listen.
Actions brother...actions. In her mind you are the guy that will always be there for her and she will hit you up when she has nothing better to do. Or you are the backup or backup to the backup guy.You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..
I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.
Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.
But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
What many guys forget is that being alpha doesn't mean having the best from both sides. Women want beta comfort and alpha dominance so if you say you banged her occasionally and she svcked you off, doesnt mean she'll text you all time etc.You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..
I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.
Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.
But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.