"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Single Mothers Flake Like Crazy!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
flowtheory
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You have your answer in your complaint...
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Sorry don't have the same experiences. My flake rate is near non-existent and I date quite a few of them.
Try maintaining contact between dates more.
Also this will happen more if they sense all you want is to fvck them.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I have kids and I prefer someone in the same situation. My preference.
I'm not trying to date a single woman who wants kids from me. Not happening.
Baibars
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Would you LTR a single mom or cohabitate with her and her kid/s?
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I have been in a few LTRs with single Moms. 2 of the best relationships of my life.
Never lived together tho although I wouldn't preclude that...the kids only are with them usually half the time, the other half with the Dad. Same with my kids.
Definitely don't get involved with unstable Dad situations. That WILL cause drama and problems for you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Maintaining contact between dates should be a two way thing..
If I don't text her first.. Bich doesn't text me.. She expects me to do ALL the work.
I messaged her on Sunday and arranged a meet for Friday.. Only spoke once at work..and zero text messages in between.
She can get fuked if she thinks I will do all the texting and all the date arranging too.
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I don't.. I just want to bang them
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That's why they flake.
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Nah this girl has come out of a 20 year relationship recently.. She just wants to have fun
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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You say that.. But only 6 days ago, she was on her knees sucking me off and was messaging me the very same day about doing that again..
I then suggested we get together on Tuesday or Friday.. And she said Friday would be better, which is today... Then she flaked last night.
Girls with zero interest don't just suck you off on a pretty regular basis.. I don't think her interest is high, but I think there is a matter of some games going on too & maybe it was a genuine flake.
But.. I don't care.. I got a few BJS out of her & in the long run this sloot is more trouble than its worth.. So next
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Actions brother...actions. In her mind you are the guy that will always be there for her and she will hit you up when she has nothing better to do. Or you are the backup or backup to the backup guy.
I am not saying you can't bang her...you probably could but honestly will it be worth the amount of effort? In my experience it never is.
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The childless women that I have typically interacted with have been flaky. In the last 9 years, these women I've been interacting with have typically been 25-35 at the time I've been interacting with them. Many of them are career oriented and will flake for work reasons. Or they flake just because I interacted with them on a swipe app and they have countless options.
Think about all the things that a man has to compete with for a woman's attention: Her job, her pets, her friends, her family, her hobbies/activities. That's a lot for a childless woman. A single mom has all those plus 1 or more children and possibly baby daddy issues.
Baibars
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What many guys forget is that being alpha doesn't mean having the best from both sides. Women want beta comfort and alpha dominance so if you say you banged her occasionally and she svcked you off, doesnt mean she'll text you all time etc.
I mean you're not Mr.dependable. You want to bang her and whenever she "needs" you, she fvcks you. When she needs a guy for another need of hers, she Talks to him.
This is how women operate.
Why do you expect more bru? Chill.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.