Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Low interest rather than disrespect, alas I’m being a touch pedantic. He does say it’s done covertly which makes sense. Yeah it’s a great post for sure from Guru, Ive saved it.
How about coming across as a real man that has other women at his disposal and will walk rather than deal with disrespectful behavior? And then use silence and distance when need be.
Great explanation! Makes total sense when you put it like that.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Another golden vajajay
Butt Hurt? I currently have a situation where I am applying silence & distance with a chick in my workplace.
Can we publish a weekly brochure for this?
If once in a blue moon, your gut is telling you to make an exception with one of these, maybe there is a good reason for that. That´s all I can really add to the opening post. Something as simple as "Hey no problem. Let me know when x,y,z" Then after you send that text you leave the ball in her court and go all "silence and distance" Thats a particular of course; on generals I agree with most (if not all) of the opening post.
100%.
If there are cases in which you would use clear communication and instead silence and distance, what are they?
Also, you don't really want someone like that in your life.
I understand that it works, but if you mean all women, that's a generalization.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
And the number of great posters who were here even a few years ago no longer active. Guru being one of them but not the only one.
