Extremely useful advice, in the relationship/ deep stages that is!
In the initial stages, there's usually a power struggle, and you're in competition with a lot of other guys for any given girl. Going silent and distant is a good thing, no doubt. But what if she isn't attracted to you? What if she isn't chasing you? What if you aren't near first place? What if you do this too early? You'll be going S&D till kingdom come. And not even learning anything.
Well, going silent and distant will prevent you from being an orbiter or any other beta role, but you'll be viewed as a non-entity, useless, or uninterested. End of the day, you didn't get the girl. Sometimes you dodge a bullet i.e. when she needs someone to tease or string along.
How guys view it after going S&D:
She's not interested, I just weeded out an attention seeker! I'm not about to be her new beta.
How girls view it:
I wasn't interested in him anyway. For some reason, Kevin did look good in that LA Lakers hoodie yesterday, let me call him!
She has to have some interest there, may be evident if she calls or texts. Otherwise, she'll be glad you're gone so she can focus more on the personal trainer from Planet Fitness.
Female attention is a good thing, but if it doesn't go past that, it's just that she sees you as a beta male at most.
Alpha moves are great to use, but do they bring you results outside of weeding off attention seekers and women who only see you as someone to fill some beta void Chad and Tyrone aren't?
In order for her to lose you, she has to actually have you. How can she have you when she barely knows you?
Then again, there's a reason why guys have to play mind games too.
