"Women would rather share alphas than be monogamous with a beta"
This concept still blows my mind even after all this time.
More proof that women are much different than men. Women understand this concept.
They execute their dualistic sexual strategy all the time.
The lesser men scream in agony and pain when they hold a moral code that was manufactured for them and then integrated into their very thoughts and morality and the woman executes her strategy on them.
Sex for a man has significant meaning. this is not so true for women. They know that certain men follow a different path that is much more like them. The more entrenched into the structural moral code that was drilled into them, the more shocking it is to them.
Their entire life is about working towards a fictitious unity of love and teamwork. Whereas ALL women understand the “Provider/Breeder” game. One to provide and the others for breeding.
This is why I have said that the second you commit, if you are entrenched in the social structure, she knows you are volunteering for the provider position.
A woman who goes long term with the man who is OUTSIDE the social structure, she knows that he will be the breeder of other women. Some will even have a secret pride in her landing a breeder. She knows she has bested the other women. Bragging rights.
Here is where it will go off the rails. If she feels that her resources are in jeopardy, it will get ugly. Providing you are married.
The caveat is that the social structure is now making it easy for her to extract resources in the event she deems you are the Provider that fell for some external tramp. Thus you have to have the breeder mindset BEFORE you marry her or go into an LTR.
The word “cheat”, in normal vernacular is misused. I may take a lot of crap for this but I don’t mind entertaining the married woman who presents herself. Is it wise? I’m not sure, depends on the context. Obviously I don’t believe her lies about “abuse” or “pathetic” if she mentions her significant other. She is only throwing out justifications for what she is about to do.
I could write whole chapters on this, but this isn’t the right venue. It’s a touchy subject indeed.