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That betaization is a "castration" of his masculine aura.
Yes.
There's only one serious drawback.

He can't turn on his masculine aura like a lightswitch back at home, when its been castrated to fend off other women indirectly outside the home. Castration by one thousand concessions means no more masculinity ANYWHERE anymore...outside AND inside the home.

I think f*mists kinda overlook that important detail. oops.
 

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It’s probably biological but women find men with girlfriends / fiancé’s / wives even more attractive. It’s quite deranged. They see a taken man and see him as higher value, especially if his lady is happy with him.
You are right. I agree with you.

Why can't I get the tingles for a taken man? Am I broken or too masculine? Even before being redpilled EyeB. I jump ship if I realise he's a taken man.
 

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Yes.
There's only one serious drawback.

He can't turn on his masculine aura like a lightswitch back at home, when its been castrated to fend off other women indirectly outside the home.

I think f*mists kinda overlook that important detail. oops.
No you can't. What has to happen in that situation is you let an appreciative woman bless your spirit and REVIVE you through admiration and sex.
 

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No you can't. What has to happen in that situation is you let an appreciative woman bless your spirit and REVIVE you through sex.
I may be interpreted as blackpill-ish, but why would a woman do this reviving only to have his aura return so he will start hurting her again by taking a Side b*tch?
I can't wrap my head around what a solution could be except for her maybe taking her own Side F*ckboy.

Its why I agreed a few months ago in a post that society is at or rapidly headed towards the polyamoury state of relationships.

"You get a Side B*tch, you get a Side F*ckboy...everyone gets a Side piece!"

*say that out loud in the Oprah voice when she gives audience gifts in days before Christmas episodes.....lol!
 

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I may be interpreted as blackpill-ish, but why would a woman do this reviving only to have his aura return so he will start hurting her again by taking a Side b*tch?
I can't wrap my head around what a solution could be except for her maybe taking her own Side F*ckboy.

Its why I agreed a few months ago in a post that society is at or rapidly headed towards the polyamoury state of relationships.

"You get a Side B*tch, you get a Side F*ckboy...everyone gets a Side piece!"

*say that out loud in the Oprah voice when she gives audience gifts in days before Christmas episodes.....lol!
That's how people are thinking these days. Ots pretty trashy.

But yes, man or woman if you get degraded by a person or a situation you must be validated somewhere else to be restored If your sexual image has been trashed out by a greedy wife or gf you will have to revive that with other women who admire you.
 

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That's how people are thinking these days. Ots pretty trashy.

But yes, man or woman if you get degraded by a person or a situation you must be validated somewhere else to be restored If your sexual image has been trashed out by a greedy wife or gf you will have to revive that with other women who admire you.
I know how fortunate I've been to learn on this site.
A safe place to grow and replenish my energy and restore what I think positively and hopefully for my future.

Apex Mindset on yt has some good videos. In the Dec 9, 2020 one on Promiscuity he actually addresses women directly at about 21 min mark. He's good with his NLP and evo psych. knowledge and skill.
I recommend him and this site for women who are taking the time to figure out where they've been going wrong and how to take accountability to change.
Red pill rage subsides and selfdevelopment work must be ramped up
 

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I know how fortunate I've been to learn on this site.
A safe place to grow and replenish my energy and restore what I think positively and hopefully for my future.

Apex Mindset on yt has some good videos. In the Dec 9, 2020 one on Promiscuity he actually addresses women directly at about 21 min mark. He's good with his NLP and evo psych. knowledge and skill.
I recommend him and this site for women who are taking the time to figure out where they've been going wrong and how to take accountability to change.
Red pill rage subsides and selfdevelopment work must be ramped up
Will check this one out
 

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Will check this one out
Yes, it was good and accurate. Its hard for women to take accountability/responsibility.
I'm guilty of redating exboyfriends thinking I'm keeping the notch count low. smh
 

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I'm guilty of redating exboyfriends thinking I'm keeping the notch count low. smh
One of my ex's tried to do this with me and called it "recycling". It's good for the environment. LOL
 

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One of my ex's tried to do this with me and called it "recycling". It's good for the environment. LOL
Meanwhile, there's a chance they would have been exposed to a disproportionate amount of sti's.
They might not have been a safe bet like I assumed they would be.
I have taken some terrible chances. Dumb.
 

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I think this is the biggest learning gap in the manosphere and on Sosuave.

Over the years I've read a lot of posts from wise posters (and some dumb ones) saying that falling in love, developing crushes, feelings, and the like is the province of women, but not capital-M Men. Better to be detached for when the other shoe drops, or to keep her in "dread."

But those things (love, crushes) don't have to mean obsession. It's framed that way around here because for so many former chumps, that's what it once meant. I see so many guys on SS self-flagellating because they got a crush on some chick or developed feelings. When what they could really be doing is enjoying these things for what they are and welcoming the challenge they bring to the self - how to handle it without compromising your interests.

Strategies don't work, IMO. Once you start strategizing, your relationship (plate or LTR) becomes a project, and you start investing in non-investment.

The only thing that has worked for me is:

Find your mission and follow it.

I can't stress this enough. Ninety-nine percent of everything else falls into place. I'm not saying you shouldn't think before you act, or seek advice. I'm just saying that all of the boogeymen that haunt Sosuave can be neutralized if you

Find your mission and follow it.

AMOGs, Chads, Dual Mating Strategies, being "cucked," wondering "how to play this," wondering if you should next, wondering if you should call her out, should you be nicer, should you commit...none of this shyt matters when you

Find your mission and follow it.

Heck, you can even take on a side bytch and have it all blow up in your face, but you'll be fine. (Circling back to the thread topic...I almost forgot.)
Brilliant post. 100% agree.
 

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However, in my experience, very few women will ever truly accept an "open" long-term relationship.
In my experience I see a different dynzmic going on out here.
Don't ask don't tell type of girls having a side gig as well. Seems to work for some.
In our younger days we all saw quite clear that people can have great sexxx with multiple people within a given time frame.
Not condoning it but it can work for some.
 

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I may be interpreted as blackpill-ish, but why would a woman do this reviving only to have his aura return so he will start hurting her again by taking a Side b*tch?
I can't wrap my head around what a solution could be except for her maybe taking her own Side F*ckboy.

Its why I agreed a few months ago in a post that society is at or rapidly headed towards the polyamoury state of relationships.

"You get a Side B*tch, you get a Side F*ckboy...everyone gets a Side piece!"

*say that out loud in the Oprah voice when she gives audience gifts in days before Christmas episodes.....lol!
during one of a 5-year section of my life, a close male friend I had was an ex male model, chad++ in almost every way. every single place we went EVERY woman had an eye for him and making a plan to get him, remembering this now with a red pill lens it is even more clear. The dude was as honest as I am or even more, not the same IQ but wise. any room he would enter was always the top in the room without saying anything. he had morals and codes with steel in them. loyal as could be to is the wife who was very good-looking. when other men did not demonstrate his level of morals, he wanted nothing to do with them outside of professional. very masculine, not macho at all, and almost no fear that could be seen, and gave everyone respect regardless of position.

what you're probably looking for is one that can but does not. they do exist. but your right that if revreviving up a dude that never could before they might not have ever built in the codes to stay cool. but there are some that will/do. the question would be, how to decide what the broken man would be if fixed up. I have mentored men that later have stabbed me, and others that later have helped me. I also do not know how to answer that question of how to know.

she does it to/for him so that she can enjoy him and love him more.
 

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during one of a 5-year section of my life, a close male friend I had was an ex male model, chad++ in almost every way. every single place we went EVERY woman had an eye for him and making a plan to get him, remembering this now with a red pill lens it is even more clear. The dude was as honest as I am or even more, not the same IQ but wise. any room he would enter was always the top in the room without saying anything. he had morals and codes with steel in them. loyal as could be to is the wife who was very good-looking. when other men did not demonstrate his level of morals, he wanted nothing to do with them outside of professional. very masculine, not macho at all, and almost no fear that could be seen, and gave everyone respect regardless of position.

what you're probably looking for is one that can but does not. they do exist. but your right that if revreviving up a dude that never could before they might not have ever built in the codes to stay cool. but there are some that will/do. the question would be, how to decide what the broken man would be if fixed up. I have mentored men that later have stabbed me, and others that later have helped me. I also do not know how to answer that question of how to know.

she does it to/for him so that she can enjoy him and love him more.
I meditate on this every day now metalwater.

I have been hoping a method of screening would come to me but it hasn't yet.

Its a sad one to solve for me. I can't help but think I will have to plan out tests. I learned in redpill that women test men anyways but this would be the first time I'm deliberately and consciously planning out the test to see if he can keep his dualistic mating strategy under strict discipline on his own.
That's a great example of your model friend and his loyalty to his wife. Thanks for the hope.

And I share your disappointment with your mentees turning on you.
Betrayal is a powerfully negative thing to experience.
Let me find a meme I saved from the other day.(as it relates to being backstabbed by mentees)
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Don’t...if you want to cheat be single. The amount of stress and hiding behind your partners back is not worth it. No ***** is worth that. I do think flirting with other women can be beneficial while in a relationship just don’t act on it. I’ve lost a lot of good women that were into me over this. They pick up on the declining interest level and withdraw. Social proof and being “the man” only helps you in the initial phase of getting to know her. Yes you may have women that look at getting men to commit as a game and get bored once you do but these women are not worth your time. Be real be genuine...if you know your smv is high you can get away with being a nice guy to women. If it’s low they will just think your creepy. **** two years ago I bought a girl a $500 gift card before I ever even banged her. But I was confident I could get her and I did. I’ve since moved on but she makes more money than me now and still asks my friends about me to this day lol.

I’ve been on this forum for 8 years and have banged everything from strippers to accountants bankers models etc.... banging 5 bad chicks in a month while your in a relationship it’s all ego fueled bull**** that gets you nowhere. if that’s the life you want use escorts they will be less headache trust me
 
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