Should you ever apologize to a woman?

[Ryan Adams]

Now im not talkong spilling and saying sorry

 

[dude99]

Now im not talkong spilling and saying sorry

I did once

" i'm sorry i didn't dump you sooner."

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes. Apologize once only if you are wrong. Once and move on. Don’t ever apologize for the same thing twice.

 

[Ryan Adams]

Say you said some mean things drunk. Nothing crazy but was sorta an *******

 

[dude99]

Say you said some mean things drunk. Nothing crazy but was sorta an *******

Nah. Keep her on the emotional roller coaster.

 

[Glassguy]

Here we go again........the abyss.

 

[Ryan Adams]

This never happened to me... Im just asking

 

[HyenaPrince]

Depends. What things were said?

 

[Billtx49]

This never happened to me... Im just asking

Different offenses require different make good approaches, or not. If you’re really that interested, give us All your hypothetical examples. I, like many others here am Not the Amazing Kreskin…

 

[derby1]

OP you have been here 4 years, its almost comedy value now, your trolling is good though

 

[Means1988]

Apologize for what? Accidentally elbowing her eye ball while opening a door and not seeing her? You certainly should apologize.

Blasting music at 2 AM and waking her up? You should apologize cause it’s common respect to people.

But apologize cause you didn’t reply to her? She didn’t like the flowers? You bought the wrong thing she asked for? You told a joke she didn’t find funny? You talked to a girl at a bar and she is upset cause you talked to someone else? You absolutely not should apologize for that ****.

 

[cola]

Nothing wrong with apologizing, when adults do something wrong that’s what they do.
What you don’t do is grovel.
I apologize is all you say, that’s it.

If she is receptive to it and not pouting like a child and you want to show your apology by doing something nice fine, if she is being difficult about it we don’t beg for forgiveness. She can get over it and fix her attitude or you don’t talk to her until she is. Do not keep repeatedly saying sorry. You said it once, that’s enough.

 

[lamath]

I did once

" i'm sorry i didn't dump you sooner."

Boom
End of thread.

 

[lamath]

Boom
End of thread.

Women will try and make you feel sorry for many things you shouldn t and its a trap most of the time.

 

[Ryan Adams]

Apologize for what? Accidentally elbowing her eye ball while opening a door and not seeing her? You certainly should apologize.

Blasting music at 2 AM and waking her up? You should apologize cause it’s common respect to people.

But apologize cause you didn’t reply to her? She didn’t like the flowers? You bought the wrong thing she asked for? You told a joke she didn’t find funny? You talked to a girl at a bar and she is upset cause you talked to someone else? You absolutely not should apologize for that ****.

This is exactly what im talking about. Here is my answer

 

[RangerMIke]

If you legitimately did something wrong than sure... apologize once. Now if the woman will not let it go, dump her.

What you don't want to do is to say you are sorry for something you don't believe is wrong, because that is dishonesty.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Generally speaking, it's a bad idea to apologize. But in certain instances it's ok.

OK:
"Hey honey, I'm really sorry, I accidentally ran over your roses with the lawn mower. I'll try to rescue them."
or
" Oh damn, I forgot to get eggs at the store today. I know we're out so sorry about that. I'll get some tomorrow after the Home Depot run."

NOT OK:
Wife: (Says *****-like): I saw you checking out that young girl at the store today.
Man: No I didn't.
Wife: Yes you did and it's BS!
Man: Well, I said I didn't, so I'm not apologizing because I didn't do anything wrong.
Wife (huffs and stomps out of room)
Man: (continues to watch game or whatever but doesn't give in)

 

[BadBoy89]

Apologize for what? Accidentally elbowing her eye ball while opening a door and not seeing her? You certainly should apologize.

Blasting music at 2 AM and waking her up? You should apologize cause it’s common respect to people.

But apologize cause you didn’t reply to her? She didn’t like the flowers? You bought the wrong thing she asked for? You told a joke she didn’t find funny? You talked to a girl at a bar and she is upset cause you talked to someone else? You absolutely not should apologize for that ****.

Agree.

Women see men who apologize as weak and know they can manipulate them. A man should not apologize for anything in the relationship. Its a woman’s job to make the relationship go round. It’s the mans job to have sex with her.

Wife: (Says *****-like): I saw you checking out that young girl at the store today.
Man: No I didn't.
Wife: Yes you did and it's BS!

I would reply:

Wife: (Says *****-like): I saw you checking out that young girl at the store today.
Man: What girl? I didn’t see a girl. What are you talking about?

 

[Scars]

I use apologies as another tool to get what I want. I've definitely apologized to a woman but 100% didn't mean one bit of it. I think the question is situational and way too many variables involved to give a definite answer.