She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have no racial preference necessarilyWhat about a Black or Asian girl?
Ha! I thought you meant 5 feet tall. How tall was she?Mine was a “5” I met online. A normal chick that I felt comfortable with. No regrets.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
a$$ is a$$, as long as she's not the elephant woman. That doesn't mean you want to wake up next to her for the rest of your life it just means you want to bust a nut. If she does what you want, satisfies your urges and is a tight piece, as long as she's not a complete troll, what's the problem? When I was younger, yep, I was holding out for the runway model but honestly, those b*tches are too much work to hustle into bed usually. You can get a 5-7 into bed much easier, the sex will be good usually and a round 2 is much more likely in a usual rotation.5/10 woman in looks can be very satysfying in bed if she is young.
I understand guys that hesitate to phuck 5/10 for their first time. I also thought I'm too good for them when I was young myself but I need to mention I was stupid.
Young 5/10 body can be very satysfying. Just use condom and don't get into LTR and it's very good experience.
That means the grade scale is not just a matter of looks, but it's a matter of character and how many other guys (or girls, or multiple at one time, or porn movies she has acted in, etc....). A used up woman or hor would be less than an hb5, no matter how hot she looks because she deals with or has dealt with too many other guys to feel good about yourself for dealing with her.Because 4/10 means ugly. 5/10 and above is ok. It means experience w/o a hangover.
Generally agree.If your not fvcking or a virgin you better fvck what you can get. Preferably NONPAID sex. The female needs to want to give it.
Well yeah. It would be bad for your spirit. Find a "nice" heavy chick or non experience one for the first time.Generally agree.
But the hard drug use of this chick scares me. It goes back to the principle of “Don’t stick your D in crazy.” That’s my #1 concern here.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well yeah. It would be bad for your spirit. Find a "nice" heavy chick or non experience one for the first time.
...or as you said, it would be bad for your spirit?The female needs to want to give it.
This lady is like a 3a$$ is a$$, as long as she's not the elephant woman. That doesn't mean you want to wake up next to her for the rest of your life it just means you want to bust a nut. If she does what you want, satisfies your urges and is a tight piece, as long as she's not a complete troll, what's the problem? When I was younger, yep, I was holding out for the runway model but honestly, those b*tches are too much work to hustle into bed usually. You can get a 5-7 into bed much easier, the sex will be good usually and a round 2 is much more likely in a usual rotation.
I even prefer fat chicksThe OP definitely can get laid. But I would hold out just a little while longer for a more chill//stable/normal chick even if she’s fat. Then destroy that puzzy lol
That’s fine. My first was (a former) very fat chick that lost weight. Basically she was very “thick” which was fine. But 26 yo and blonde, so still cute.I even prefer fat chicks
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does that really work though? Will ****ing this tweaker lead to me banging a fat girl in her 20s (that's my idea of a 9)?
no that wont lead you to banging hotter women, its just one step of many that you need to do to get awareness and chitDoes that really work though? Will ****ing this tweaker lead to me banging a fat girl in her 20s (that's my idea of a 9)?
What would that prove? It just means you can pick up garbage. Most people on here can. You dont work your way up you just establish how low you had to go.if you are virgin or have low experience and behave like social autist or dont initiate near women then u should go try bang anything even if shes old and fat
(i personally dont mind old and non-hot chicks if they are not fat).
once u feel u have enough of experience with ugly fat old th0ts you should raise your SMV (look, job,,haircut,gym and stuff)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.