"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I sleep with really ugly woman?

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You need experience at 26 its time, it can only help you in the long run.

Thing should get better the older you get but you need to get out of the house.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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epic lols, is this for real

i dont even know what you guys are talking about, how can you get hard for someone you think is ugly??
 

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I wouldn't do it if I were you. You'll probably regret it afterwards and that can mess with your confidence. The book of pook talks about not being desperate. Banging any blown out ***** that will have you is desperation. I think you should maintain some sort of standard(average to slightly less than average chicks)and work on getting there. It will be better for your confidence IMO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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5/10 woman in looks can be very satysfying in bed if she is young.

I understand guys that hesitate to phuck 5/10 for their first time. I also thought I'm too good for them when I was young myself but I need to mention I was stupid.

Young 5/10 body can be very satysfying. Just use condom and don't get into LTR and it's very good experience.
a$$ is a$$, as long as she's not the elephant woman. That doesn't mean you want to wake up next to her for the rest of your life it just means you want to bust a nut. If she does what you want, satisfies your urges and is a tight piece, as long as she's not a complete troll, what's the problem? When I was younger, yep, I was holding out for the runway model but honestly, those b*tches are too much work to hustle into bed usually. You can get a 5-7 into bed much easier, the sex will be good usually and a round 2 is much more likely in a usual rotation.
 

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Because 4/10 means ugly. 5/10 and above is ok. It means experience w/o a hangover.
That means the grade scale is not just a matter of looks, but it's a matter of character and how many other guys (or girls, or multiple at one time, or porn movies she has acted in, etc....). A used up woman or hor would be less than an hb5, no matter how hot she looks because she deals with or has dealt with too many other guys to feel good about yourself for dealing with her.
 

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If your not fvcking or a virgin you better fvck what you can get. Preferably NONPAID sex. The female needs to want to give it.
 

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If your not fvcking or a virgin you better fvck what you can get. Preferably NONPAID sex. The female needs to want to give it.
Generally agree.

But the hard drug use of this chick scares me. It goes back to the principle of “Don’t stick your D in crazy.” That’s my #1 concern here.
 

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Generally agree.

But the hard drug use of this chick scares me. It goes back to the principle of “Don’t stick your D in crazy.” That’s my #1 concern here.
Well yeah. It would be bad for your spirit. Find a "nice" heavy chick or non experience one for the first time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a$$ is a$$, as long as she's not the elephant woman. That doesn't mean you want to wake up next to her for the rest of your life it just means you want to bust a nut. If she does what you want, satisfies your urges and is a tight piece, as long as she's not a complete troll, what's the problem? When I was younger, yep, I was holding out for the runway model but honestly, those b*tches are too much work to hustle into bed usually. You can get a 5-7 into bed much easier, the sex will be good usually and a round 2 is much more likely in a usual rotation.
This lady is like a 3
 

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The OP definitely can get laid. But I would hold out just a little while longer for a more chill//stable/normal chick even if she’s fat. Then destroy that puzzy lol
I even prefer fat chicks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I didn't realise she was on hard drugs, could have HIV/AIDS - it's best to steer clear.

But if this woman wants to fvck you, then other women will too, so go find them.
 

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@Epicwinguy I'd have to say no. Sex with a woman you don't like is boring, dck don't always work right, to complicate things, because you're not turned on, it could go on for hours on end. To put yourself into situation you don't like for hours on end is at least self insulting and it will not bring you anything in terms of experience. Stay away from situations like this.
 

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Does that really work though? Will ****ing this tweaker lead to me banging a fat girl in her 20s (that's my idea of a 9)?

if you are virgin or have low experience and behave like social autist or dont initiate near women then u should go try bang anything even if shes old and fat

(i personally dont mind old and non-hot chicks if they are not fat).

once u feel u have enough of experience with ugly fat old th0ts you should raise your SMV (look, job,,haircut,gym and stuff)
 

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if you are virgin or have low experience and behave like social autist or dont initiate near women then u should go try bang anything even if shes old and fat

(i personally dont mind old and non-hot chicks if they are not fat).

once u feel u have enough of experience with ugly fat old th0ts you should raise your SMV (look, job,,haircut,gym and stuff)
What would that prove? It just means you can pick up garbage. Most people on here can. You dont work your way up you just establish how low you had to go.

There was a past poster on here named Maxtro who had similar issues. He then complained he hit a a ceiling and could only either pay for it or deal with girls he was not attracted to.

It is better to just talk to a hotter girl, approach 10 hot girls and just say hi to them with the hopes a few wont ignore you. That would make a better time because social validation from hot women is miles better than sexual validation with gutter quality women. You cant get rid of certain memories.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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