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Should I sleep with really ugly woman?

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This is along the lines of an older male virgin paying for a hooker will somehow lead to massive amounts of confidence and suddenly meet tons of woman that he actually wants. I guarantee that this will do little in the way towards bettering your prospects with women you are actually interested in. Hell, it may even make things worse for yourself, as other posters have mentioned.

On a personal note, I can't imagine pursuing anything with a woman I was not even remotely interested in.
 

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That’s fine. My first was (a former) very fat chick that lost weight. Basically she was very “thick” which was fine. But 26 yo and blonde, so still cute.
This is along the lines of an older male virgin paying for a hooker will somehow lead to massive amounts of confidence and suddenly meet tons of woman that he actually wants. I guarantee that this will do little in the way towards bettering your prospects with women you are actually interested in. Hell, it may even make things worse for yourself, as other posters have mentioned.

On a personal note, I can't imagine pursuing anything with a woman I was not even remotely interested in.
Yeah I've decided against it.
It was nice to get the attention though, which I guess makes me like a ho that gets attention yet never puts out.
 

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Yeah I've decided against it.
It was nice to get the attention though, which I guess makes me like a ho that gets attention yet never puts out.
I don't operate on this level, but why not just go to a bar with some of your guys and go pick up some drunk girl. I go out with my friends semi regularly and I see a lot of not so great looking women that are drunk, having a good time and would be open to the advances of most men. I'd wager you'd find those women far more attractive than the one you have been talking about in this thread lol.

As I mentioned, it's not something I would personally ever do but I'd rather you see hookup with some 20 something, overweight but reasonably normal looking girl than what you described lol.
 

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Good thing about meth heads is that they tend to loose they're teeth so at least your first blow job should be pretty smooth going.
What if the meth head was once a Playmate of the Month? o_Oo_Oo_O
 

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I wouldn't do it if I were you. You'll probably regret it afterwards and that can mess with your confidence. The book of pook talks about not being desperate. Banging any blown out ***** that will have you is desperation. I think you should maintain some sort of standard(average to slightly less than average chicks)and work on getting there. It will be better for your confidence IMO.
A YouTube philosopher (I believe he's an Aussie) likes to say:
Every time you fuuck a fat chick, a little piece inside of you dies.
 

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This lady is like a 3
Well, I guess it depends on how bad you need a lay, which would probably be largely determined by how long ago your last drink of water was. If you're super thirsty, bag your johnson, bah her head and goto town. Or turn her around. Either way, go to town if you must.
 

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I don't operate on this level, but why not just go to a bar with some of your guys and go pick up some drunk girl. I go out with my friends semi regularly and I see a lot of not so great looking women that are drunk, having a good time and would be open to the advances of most men. I'd wager you'd find those women far more attractive than the one you have been talking about in this thread lol.

As I mentioned, it's not something I would personally ever do but I'd rather you see hookup with some 20 something, overweight but reasonably normal looking girl than what you described lol.
I don't have any real friends just some ******* co-workers I go out with occasionally
 

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If I had to spin plates like this, I'd just give up:
I honestly don't understand the whole "she ain't prettay but at least she's skinnay heeheeheehee!" I would do that girl in that link in a heartbeat
 

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I don't have any real friends just some ******* co-workers I go out with occasionally
Go make a good and solid group of guy friends, it definitely becomes easier to meet women compared to being more of a loner, trust me I know. I was a complete loner until about a little over a year ago, prior to that I had dated but it was pretty rare. After I had my friends in my life I have been meeting women far more regularly and going on more dates, though it hasn't amounted to much of anything yet. When people see you having a good time with other people you become more attractive, more approachable, etc. compared to when you are just sitting there by yourself. There isn't anything necessarily wrong with not having friends, as I had no close friends for almost my entire life, but it is easy to see how it makes things easier.

I think you should focus more on what I mentioned and not stoop so low as having a sexual liason with some druggie, nor pay for a prostitute or anything along those lines. I'm assuming you are also working on your life, have hobbies, interests, etc. If this is not the case, also do that as well, most women of any degree of quality will not date a loser.
 

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Go make a good and solid group of guy friends, it definitely becomes easier to meet women compared to being more of a loner, trust me I know. I was a complete loner until about a little over a year ago, prior to that I had dated but it was pretty rare. After I had my friends in my life I have been meeting women far more regularly and going on more dates, though it hasn't amounted to much of anything yet. When people see you having a good time with other people you become more attractive, more approachable, etc. compared to when you are just sitting there by yourself. There isn't anything necessarily wrong with not having friends, as I had no close friends for almost my entire life, but it is easy to see how it makes things easier.

I think you should focus more on what I mentioned and not stoop so low as having a sexual liason with some druggie, nor pay for a prostitute or anything along those lines. I'm assuming you are also working on your life, have hobbies, interests, etc. If this is not the case, also do that as well, most women of any degree of quality will not date a loser.
I've just always found it hard to get a social circle and friends and such. I'm not in college and not entirely sure if I will ever go back. I'm going to join an mma gym or CrossFit soon though not sure that will help
 

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Until I am literally Channing Tatum right?
You are in a tricky spot because that inexperience is killing your confidence, but after thinking about this a bit more dont **** that women.

The time will come eventualy, but you got to at least try to improve your attractiveness.

Work on the factor you can control and improve.it will give you more confidence and better looks.
 

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Just F**k it..

Your brain is looking for excuses


I b@nged a few mature but 6'y women.. that's like driving an old race car, purpose build for the job. Everything is setup correctly, all you have to do is floor it, and have fun.. milage of experince, ask her to teach you.. she know a trick or two and for sure is not shy anymore..

If the veichle is deemed unsafe to drive.. don't do it.. but if it passes safety, GO!!

burn some rubber!!
 

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If you're attracted to her, go for it. If not or you're otherwise uncomfortable with that shyt, don't.
 
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