"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I ever tell her about my kid and my Open Releationship?

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Hey guys,

I will meet a 22-year-old one and I thought before we meet each other and I start building deep comfort (telling about myselft etc) should I be completely authentic and tell her about my life partner or not?

What were your experiences?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You already asked the same question in the other thread and got answers. I mean you are bringing them home to your kid and wife so wouldn't you think it's kinda necessary?
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
You already asked the same question in the other thread and got answers. I mean you are bringing them home to your kid and wife so wouldn't you think it's kinda necessary?
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İ don't bring her home. That question (last week) was more about the frame.

Right now i asked about a specific situation which i will handle and get confident with.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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reality250 said:
İ don't bring her home. That question (last week) was more about the frame.

Right now i asked about a specific situation which i will handle and get confident with.

Thanks
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Frame is everything. You don’t fix frame problems in a week.

You can say or do anything with the right frame. I would argue saying less about things is better than saying more.
 
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I am unfamiliar with your other thread - but considering you are in an open relationship with a child from that relationship, this sounds like it is just a fling with this 22 year old. Why say anything at all about anything else? I am guessing this is purely for sex. Just have fun with it and keep things light. If you start getting heavy with this 22 year old she likely bolts anyway.
 
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