Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
After a heavy work out do any of you go in the sauna...
what are the benefits anyways?
what are the benefits anyways?
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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
There are actually benefits. I think I've read a bit about it. Go to google and type it "sauna muscle benefits".
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
I don't know anything about the benefits of a sauna, but you sweat like a bankok wh0re when you're in them, so make sure to re-hydrate.
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the warmth increases blood flow and thus enhances recovery, however hot and cold showers achieve the same thing more effectively.
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I hate cold water.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ya cold water makes my shambol go in
:nervous:
:nervous:
diablo
Master Don Juan
Are you referring to a sauna which produces wet heat (steam) or dry heat? I've tried both, and feel as though the steamroom opens up my lungs and skin, making my shower that much better later. The dry heat sauna leaves me feeling nothing but sweaty. However, for relaxation after working out I like the hot tub.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
so basicly its just for relaxation.
tanx a lot
peace
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tanx a lot
peace
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Charm&Style said:ya cold water makes my shambol go in
:nervous:
Yeah, I look like a girl after a cold shower. If you catch my drift. :cheer:
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Skilla_Staz said:Yeah, I look like a girl after a cold shower. If you catch my drift. :cheer:
:rock:
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
having a cold shower IMMEDIATELY after a hot one for about 30sec increases ur immune system too
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Sitting in a hot, steamy room with a bunch of half-naked men? If you're homosexual there are plenty of benefits - else get the heck out of the gym right after your workout as there's a large meal at home that requires your immediate attention.Charm&Style said:After a heavy work out do any of you go in the sauna...
what are the benefits anyways?
Leave the sauna to the weenies.
Pete
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
dude if u know ur not gay who the fuk cares sit in the corner and shut ur eyes if ur that freaked out by it
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I've read that the best benefits come around 3 hours or so after you lift. I might just look this stuff up and type me a nice little article sometime soon.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
oh for ****s sake..
going in a sauna does not make you gay
gay is when you have sexual interest in other men. If you have no sexual interest in other men (including half-naked ones in a sauna with you), then you are, by definition, NOT GAY.
I rest my case.
going in a sauna does not make you gay
gay is when you have sexual interest in other men. If you have no sexual interest in other men (including half-naked ones in a sauna with you), then you are, by definition, NOT GAY.
I rest my case.
It seems your mind is on the men in the sauna and not on the relaxation that you yourself get from it. I wonder why you even signed up for a gym that has a sauna? Perhaps so that you could peek at the half-naked men in the sauna to please your heterosexual curiosities? The big joke is that you act like you've never seen another man naked before. We all get changed in the same locker-room and people in the locker-room are completely naked when they get changed, take a shower, etc. You got major insecurities.musclyjerk said:Sitting in a hot, steamy room with a bunch of half-naked men? If you're homosexual there are plenty of benefits - else get the heck out of the gym right after your workout as there's a large meal at home that requires your immediate attention.
Leave the sauna to the weenies.
Pete
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Has any one of you had the experience of being really tired after 30 minutes in a sauna?
Must be all that bad stuff leaving my body.
Must be all that bad stuff leaving my body.
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