logicallefty
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It’s good to be a man, sux to be a woman.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Its funny cause when you tell them, they argue with you, then they live it and still argue... Amazing.
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I ignore it when women say that they're Christians these days. It doesn't actually mean anything to them.
I will liken it to me saying I don't eat pizza: get a few beers in me, give me a slice
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MatureDJ
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You and the rest of her Betas orbitors (granted, you are in a very high orbit) will be saved up in the enclosed glass case that says BREAK IF HITTING THE WALL. All she needs is one to be available and still interested.
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With the fine print saying "chad". Oh phoey.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AttackFormation
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Maybe it means something to some of them - the ones who are also least likely to (still) be single and/or use OLD in the first place.
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sad truth, but I already got another one going that treats me real wellYou and the rest of her Betas orbitors (granted, you are in a very high orbit) will be saved up in the enclosed glass case that says BREAK IF HITTING THE WALL. All she needs is one to be available and still interested.