"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It’s good to be a man, sux to be a woman.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. For everyone not noticing, she mentions church. To me, she looks like the kind that only had sex with the 2 dudes in her 20s.
2. I am not a grammar nazi, but I hope English was not her first language.
3. She seems imature and in denial. For a 37 y.o. woman.
4. I bet you could have a lot of sex by joining a women forum and trying to understand a little bit how they feel. But I have a soul and a d1ck and not enough time to hear more women whining so...yeah, ain't nobody got time for that.
I ignore it when women say that they're Christians these days. It doesn't actually mean anything to them.

I will liken it to me saying I don't eat pizza: get a few beers in me, give me a slice
 
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I was just rejected by a girl that's hitting 29 ... I told her how I felt about her and that if she changes her mind to let me know,
You and the rest of her Betas orbitors (granted, you are in a very high orbit) will be saved up in the enclosed glass case that says BREAK IF HITTING THE WALL. All she needs is one to be available and still interested. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I ignore it when women say that they're Christians these days. It doesn't actually mean anything to them.

I will liken it to me saying I don't eat pizza: get a few beers in me, give me a slice
Maybe it means something to some of them - the ones who are also least likely to (still) be single and/or use OLD in the first place.
 

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You and the rest of her Betas orbitors (granted, you are in a very high orbit) will be saved up in the enclosed glass case that says BREAK IF HITTING THE WALL. All she needs is one to be available and still interested. :rolleyes:
sad truth, but I already got another one going that treats me real well
 
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