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She had two “relationships” and then later commented on the “guys” she “committed to” were a particular innocent type.

Two relationships and the rest were hook-ups. “Innocent types” Hmmmm.

This reminds me of Judy Garland singing “somewhere over the rainbow”. She had more opportunities than the bulk of men get and she couldn’t find a man? Follow the yellow brick road. Oh my.
 

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"But, I often end up feeling too delicate to stay on the apps and leave after 3 months max and a couple 1st & 2nd dates that went nowhere."

Translation: I got pumped and dumped, and I don't have the mental capacity to accept the reason why.
 

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Cognitive dissonance at its finest
 

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Or she's just fat.
 

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1. For everyone not noticing, she mentions church. To me, she looks like the kind that only had sex with the 2 dudes in her 20s.
2. I am not a grammar nazi, but I hope English was not her first language.
3. She seems imature and in denial. For a 37 y.o. woman.
4. I bet you could have a lot of sex by joining a women forum and trying to understand a little bit how they feel. But I have a soul and a d1ck and not enough time to hear more women whining so...yeah, ain't nobody got time for that.
 

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Interesting, I was just rejected by a girl that's hitting 29, super busy with her carreer, and wants basically what I reckon would be a christian chad. She's pretty hot, so I bet there's guys throwing themselves at her, and she's extremely kind by nature so I (and from what she told me, 2 others in the past as well) mistook this as IOI. She says she's looking for someone that has similar values as her (christian I guess, always looking to become a better person, whatever the fvck that means, etc.). Now, she says she's happy being alone but wants to find someone for life, while that 30 is closing in real fast. Anyways, I told her how I felt about her and that if she changes her mind to let me know, and in the meantime I'm dating another 28 year old hottie, just having fun, not planning anything serious or whatsoever. I wonder if the first girl will hit the wall as well.
 

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Interesting, I was just rejected by a girl that's hitting 29, super busy with her carreer, and wants basically what I reckon would be a christian chad. She's pretty hot, so I bet there's guys throwing themselves at her, and she's extremely kind by nature so I (and from what she told me, 2 others in the past as well) mistook this as IOI. She says she's looking for someone that has similar values as her (christian I guess, always looking to become a better person, whatever the fvck that means, etc.). Now, she says she's happy being alone but wants to find someone for life, while that 30 is closing in real fast. Anyways, I told her how I felt about her and that if she changes her mind to let me know, and in the meantime I'm dating another 28 year old hottie, just having fun, not planning anything serious or whatsoever. I wonder if the first girl will hit the wall as well.
Send her to me, please.
I am the one in bold.:lol:
 

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Send her to me, please.
I am the one in bold.:lol:
She's gonna be nice and kind and do things for you and when you try to make a move, she'll reject you because she "was just being nice" and doesn't feel attracted to you lol

EDIT: oh yeah and she's a feminist
 

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1. For everyone not noticing, she mentions church. To me, she looks like the kind that only had sex with the 2 dudes in her 20s.
Seems like you don't know anything about "religious"women.
 

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That sensation of anxiety as if you're suppose to make a move and capitalize from events she talk about is basically what feels any average man from his late teens to his 20s...guess she knows why we dont enjoy social settings as much as women do generally.
 

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Seems like you don't know anything about "religious"women.
Believe me, you just think you know your "religious women". Maybe you even do.
I am a Christian myself and live in a country with a lot of Christian women. I know their layers.
Do you really think I've said something that's not right?
 

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Believe me, you just think you know your "religious women". Maybe you even do.
I am a Christian myself and live in a country with a lot of Christian women. I know their layers.
Do you really think I've said something that's not right?
I've seen all kinds of religious women. There are few christian women who only have sex with 2 guys in their 20s. Doesnt matter how they present themselves or how their family is.
 

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I've seen all kinds of religious women. There are few christian women who only have sex with 2 guys in their 20s. Doesnt matter how they present themselves or how their family is.
I don't adress Chistians in general. Just the type presented by the OP. The kind that has 1 or 2 sexual partners until they're 30something. Maybe she falls for a guy that pumps and dumps her after a short time and her hope in men is lost. They are a really sensitive kind of woman.
What's weird for me about this one is how immature she is mentally.
TBH I was mostly exposed to them in they're 20's and very rarely their early 30's. Considering how male/female interactions work these days, it looks possible to see many reddit posts like this in the future.
 

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I don't adress Chistians in general. Just the type presented by the OP. The kind that has 1 or 2 sexual partners until they're 30something. Maybe she falls for a guy that pumps and dumps her after a short time and her hope in men is lost. They are a really sensitive kind of woman.
What's weird for me about this one is how immature she is mentally.
TBH I was mostly exposed to them in they're 20's and very rarely their early 30's. Considering how male/female interactions work these days, it looks possible to see many reddit posts like this in the future.
But you can't judge a girl by the things she is revealing about herself. They all paint their stories like they are innocent and they manipulate guys very well.
My religious ex who had sex with many guys and is still riding the CC will tell the one she wants to settle with that she's a good girl. Not in a direct way but in an indirect way. These women know how to make you believe something without directory telling you how you should perceive her.
 

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But you can't judge a girl by the things she is revealing about herself. They all paint their stories like they are innocent and they manipulate guys very well.
My religious ex who had sex with many guys and is still riding the CC will tell the one she wants to settle with that she's a good girl. Not in a direct way but in an indirect way. These women know how to make you believe something without directory telling you how you should perceive her.
I am speaking from experience, not stories.
Sorry about your "religious" ex whoring around.
I had almost no girls telling me they're "good girls". Wouldn't phase me.
Enough with the religion walk, seems pointless if you ask me.
 
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