"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been crushing on girl 1 for about a year now. We went for drinks and dinner once, I asked her out a few times again, she always had excuse. This summer, I finally started to expand my circle of women and just started dating girl 2, while actively ignoring girl 1 when she was initiating contact. Hooked up with her, and posted something date related on social media. Girl 1 now asked me out, pretty sure it will lead to something as well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It will change your life, good man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
 

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
Fascinating how womens minds works is'nt it.
Age old advice - if women notice other women interested in you, they themselves will become intrigued.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't care, got #1 to take care of that :)
Never forget that she isn't yours it's only your turn. Women can come and go in a blink of an eye. Never assume just because you are banging a woman today that you will be banging her next week.
 
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