Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Red pill is real and it works

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I've been crushing on girl 1 for about a year now. We went for drinks and dinner once, I asked her out a few times again, she always had excuse. This summer, I finally started to expand my circle of women and just started dating girl 2, while actively ignoring girl 1 when she was initiating contact. Hooked up with her, and posted something date related on social media. Girl 1 now asked me out, pretty sure it will lead to something as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It will change your life, good man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
 

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
Fascinating how womens minds works is'nt it.
Age old advice - if women notice other women interested in you, they themselves will become intrigued.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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don't care, got #1 to take care of that :)
Never forget that she isn't yours it's only your turn. Women can come and go in a blink of an eye. Never assume just because you are banging a woman today that you will be banging her next week.
 
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