"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been crushing on girl 1 for about a year now. We went for drinks and dinner once, I asked her out a few times again, she always had excuse. This summer, I finally started to expand my circle of women and just started dating girl 2, while actively ignoring girl 1 when she was initiating contact. Hooked up with her, and posted something date related on social media. Girl 1 now asked me out, pretty sure it will lead to something as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It will change your life, good man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
 

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Follow up, met with girl 1, she doesn't feel the attraction the way I feel about her, so I told her I won't be friends with her (she wanted to be friends), and that if she changes her mind, she knows where I stand and how I feel. Right after, I set up with girl 2 to come to my city next weekend, and we'll spend the night. Keep them rolling, guys, there is always a better woman around the corner. A-L-W-A-Y-S.
Fascinating how womens minds works is'nt it.
Age old advice - if women notice other women interested in you, they themselves will become intrigued.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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don't care, got #1 to take care of that :)
Never forget that she isn't yours it's only your turn. Women can come and go in a blink of an eye. Never assume just because you are banging a woman today that you will be banging her next week.
 
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