That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First time i did ab rollouts onmy knees i just about managed to crank out a rep.Quiksilver said:Thursday, August 28, 2008
I'm gonna have to really work on those Ab rollouts, if anyone here's done them with any success, are they worth it and how do you do them for reps?
cheers
I chain the DB to my weaker ankle(in my case left leg), cross my ankles, then just do them traditionally.Just a question: How do you do your weighted hanging leg raises?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
One missed deadlift session will NOT make your deadlift lag behind your squats.Quiksilver said:I don't want my Deads to lag behind squats though.
LOL you just had to bring up the 2 cookies I gobbled in a moment of weakness!...So far you've sneaked in wine, beer, cookies on your non carb days.
First, quit with the labelling. 'TCD' is just a name/variation of a SET OF PRINCIPLES not a specific diet. The same principles that've been used since Gironda's era (and earlier on, within and outside strength training circles if you do your research).Quiksilver said:Since I'm going extreme TCD(pre/post workout only on training days only) isn't a legit cheat meal on the menu each week?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The PR was 145.5kg(320lbs)x6x2 I believe, and yeah I hope I can keep up this pace for a few more weeks! This time around should be better too. The diet I was on back then was terrible, chicken and green peppers all day with a few eggs for breakfast. And I only followed that on weekdays, eating some crap food on weekends. Sleep habits were awful back then too.shaunuk said:wooooo! It really is amazing how quickly your strength goes back up when you're regaining lost strength
hey I've seen in your journal before, but I forget, what was your max squat before? It was about 350 or something? So in kg that was like 150-160?
The kind where your ass chafes from scraping the floor so much!You could only do good mornings and RDLs with the bar after your squats 'cause your lower back was spent? What kinda squats did you do? :|
coco powder and creme if allowed. I haven't tried it but maybe some splender and coco will help you. Strawberries are quite low carb and help with taste.Quiksilver said:Any advice on how to make raw eggs more palatable is appreciated
cheers
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.