When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First time i did ab rollouts onmy knees i just about managed to crank out a rep.Quiksilver said:Thursday, August 28, 2008
I'm gonna have to really work on those Ab rollouts, if anyone here's done them with any success, are they worth it and how do you do them for reps?
cheers
I chain the DB to my weaker ankle(in my case left leg), cross my ankles, then just do them traditionally.Just a question: How do you do your weighted hanging leg raises?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
One missed deadlift session will NOT make your deadlift lag behind your squats.Quiksilver said:I don't want my Deads to lag behind squats though.
LOL you just had to bring up the 2 cookies I gobbled in a moment of weakness!...So far you've sneaked in wine, beer, cookies on your non carb days.
First, quit with the labelling. 'TCD' is just a name/variation of a SET OF PRINCIPLES not a specific diet. The same principles that've been used since Gironda's era (and earlier on, within and outside strength training circles if you do your research).Quiksilver said:Since I'm going extreme TCD(pre/post workout only on training days only) isn't a legit cheat meal on the menu each week?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The PR was 145.5kg(320lbs)x6x2 I believe, and yeah I hope I can keep up this pace for a few more weeks! This time around should be better too. The diet I was on back then was terrible, chicken and green peppers all day with a few eggs for breakfast. And I only followed that on weekdays, eating some crap food on weekends. Sleep habits were awful back then too.shaunuk said:wooooo! It really is amazing how quickly your strength goes back up when you're regaining lost strength
hey I've seen in your journal before, but I forget, what was your max squat before? It was about 350 or something? So in kg that was like 150-160?
The kind where your ass chafes from scraping the floor so much!You could only do good mornings and RDLs with the bar after your squats 'cause your lower back was spent? What kinda squats did you do? :|
coco powder and creme if allowed. I haven't tried it but maybe some splender and coco will help you. Strawberries are quite low carb and help with taste.Quiksilver said:Any advice on how to make raw eggs more palatable is appreciated
cheers
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.