That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
First time i did ab rollouts onmy knees i just about managed to crank out a rep.Quiksilver said:Thursday, August 28, 2008
I'm gonna have to really work on those Ab rollouts, if anyone here's done them with any success, are they worth it and how do you do them for reps?
cheers
I chain the DB to my weaker ankle(in my case left leg), cross my ankles, then just do them traditionally.Just a question: How do you do your weighted hanging leg raises?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
One missed deadlift session will NOT make your deadlift lag behind your squats.Quiksilver said:I don't want my Deads to lag behind squats though.
LOL you just had to bring up the 2 cookies I gobbled in a moment of weakness!...So far you've sneaked in wine, beer, cookies on your non carb days.
First, quit with the labelling. 'TCD' is just a name/variation of a SET OF PRINCIPLES not a specific diet. The same principles that've been used since Gironda's era (and earlier on, within and outside strength training circles if you do your research).Quiksilver said:Since I'm going extreme TCD(pre/post workout only on training days only) isn't a legit cheat meal on the menu each week?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The PR was 145.5kg(320lbs)x6x2 I believe, and yeah I hope I can keep up this pace for a few more weeks! This time around should be better too. The diet I was on back then was terrible, chicken and green peppers all day with a few eggs for breakfast. And I only followed that on weekdays, eating some crap food on weekends. Sleep habits were awful back then too.shaunuk said:wooooo! It really is amazing how quickly your strength goes back up when you're regaining lost strength
hey I've seen in your journal before, but I forget, what was your max squat before? It was about 350 or something? So in kg that was like 150-160?
The kind where your ass chafes from scraping the floor so much!You could only do good mornings and RDLs with the bar after your squats 'cause your lower back was spent? What kinda squats did you do? :|
coco powder and creme if allowed. I haven't tried it but maybe some splender and coco will help you. Strawberries are quite low carb and help with taste.Quiksilver said:Any advice on how to make raw eggs more palatable is appreciated
cheers
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.