You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First time i did ab rollouts onmy knees i just about managed to crank out a rep.Quiksilver said:Thursday, August 28, 2008
I'm gonna have to really work on those Ab rollouts, if anyone here's done them with any success, are they worth it and how do you do them for reps?
cheers
I chain the DB to my weaker ankle(in my case left leg), cross my ankles, then just do them traditionally.Just a question: How do you do your weighted hanging leg raises?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
One missed deadlift session will NOT make your deadlift lag behind your squats.Quiksilver said:I don't want my Deads to lag behind squats though.
LOL you just had to bring up the 2 cookies I gobbled in a moment of weakness!...So far you've sneaked in wine, beer, cookies on your non carb days.
First, quit with the labelling. 'TCD' is just a name/variation of a SET OF PRINCIPLES not a specific diet. The same principles that've been used since Gironda's era (and earlier on, within and outside strength training circles if you do your research).Quiksilver said:Since I'm going extreme TCD(pre/post workout only on training days only) isn't a legit cheat meal on the menu each week?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The PR was 145.5kg(320lbs)x6x2 I believe, and yeah I hope I can keep up this pace for a few more weeks! This time around should be better too. The diet I was on back then was terrible, chicken and green peppers all day with a few eggs for breakfast. And I only followed that on weekdays, eating some crap food on weekends. Sleep habits were awful back then too.shaunuk said:wooooo! It really is amazing how quickly your strength goes back up when you're regaining lost strength
hey I've seen in your journal before, but I forget, what was your max squat before? It was about 350 or something? So in kg that was like 150-160?
The kind where your ass chafes from scraping the floor so much!You could only do good mornings and RDLs with the bar after your squats 'cause your lower back was spent? What kinda squats did you do? :|
coco powder and creme if allowed. I haven't tried it but maybe some splender and coco will help you. Strawberries are quite low carb and help with taste.Quiksilver said:Any advice on how to make raw eggs more palatable is appreciated
cheers
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.