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Uh, if a family is leaning on a 13-yo girl for "emotional support," something is horribly, HORRIBLY wrong in the state of Denmark...
Krist, I might as well start asking a 12-yo emo boy for advice on life!
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Uh, if a family is leaning on a 13-yo girl for "emotional support," something is horribly, HORRIBLY wrong in the state of Denmark...
Krist, I might as well start asking a 12-yo emo boy for advice on life!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I'm surprised there isn't an event for boys called "Purity Blue Balls".
The thing about this kind of event (and the publicity that goes with it) is it's just a moral exterior. Just because a girl's a virgin or vows to be a virgin until marriage, it doesn't mean she's not a cvnt. I had a self-declared virgin wanting to date me back in high school. She was one of the most pushy, controlling girls I encountered. Her 5hitty personality turned me off from wanting to date her. At least the emotionally damaged girl I was hot for at the time was nice to me.
It's also difficult to refrain from posting my thoughts on Christianity due to forum rules. Maybe I'll post those in my blog
The thing about this kind of event (and the publicity that goes with it) is it's just a moral exterior. Just because a girl's a virgin or vows to be a virgin until marriage, it doesn't mean she's not a cvnt. I had a self-declared virgin wanting to date me back in high school. She was one of the most pushy, controlling girls I encountered. Her 5hitty personality turned me off from wanting to date her. At least the emotionally damaged girl I was hot for at the time was nice to me.
It's also difficult to refrain from posting my thoughts on Christianity due to forum rules. Maybe I'll post those in my blog
I pull the "i am a virgin" line once in awhile. you have to be a decent actor though - having a straight face while you explain that you relationship with jesus prevents you from having immorral thoughts about sex..
usually i pull this line when the girl is trying to give me sh1t or ..if she is dumb enough to make fun of me for being a virgin... yeah that's a good one, what are we in 5th grade?
the point is, I am going to probably think you are an idiot if you try to tell me you are better than everyone because you had a purity ball.. this doesn't make you special, it just makes you crazy
usually i pull this line when the girl is trying to give me sh1t or ..if she is dumb enough to make fun of me for being a virgin... yeah that's a good one, what are we in 5th grade?
the point is, I am going to probably think you are an idiot if you try to tell me you are better than everyone because you had a purity ball.. this doesn't make you special, it just makes you crazy
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Des, I'd question emotional stability. Is a controlling, verbally abusive person in 'control' even if they're religious? Consequently, is the baggage handling nympho out of control? What is "stable" for a woman? Even my own lovely feminine relatives can be...weird. It's like...what I say, get's crossed with their own mood, what they think they hear, and then what they ultimately want to happen...
Anyways...
Stuff like this doesn't shock me, as people seek answers, and perhaps money. My own gf is "sort of" religious. She claims she's very, but obviously we have sex, so when she gripes about my lack of religious ties, I succinctly point that part out..."you're a nymph, let's bang, stop asking about what I am or what I'm not."
Odd that the kids born up in an Amish Lifestyle since birth who go through a "trial" or "rite of passage" process go back, most of the time, but christians who are asked to forsake basic biological demands can't, and sprayed all over the news, almost daily everywhere in the world, is another pediophile under the presumption of religious confidence. I feel they're the biggest hypocrites, personally. I attend church as most of my family is somewhat catholic...and yet, I can see these people talking crap about one another, cheating, lying and so on. Putting time in at church does not clear up sins, imo.
Maybe we're the better saints here? We've accepted our own moral scruples, accepted that we're human, bound to screw up, and are big enough to admit that?
This article doesn't anger me, or raise a hair on my head...it's unlikely I'd ever meet one of these women, or that we'd find each other mutually attractive, unless it was a Conquest similar to Cruel Intentions. Then I might be interested.
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Des, I'd question emotional stability. Is a controlling, verbally abusive person in 'control' even if they're religious? Consequently, is the baggage handling nympho out of control? What is "stable" for a woman? Even my own lovely feminine relatives can be...weird. It's like...what I say, get's crossed with their own mood, what they think they hear, and then what they ultimately want to happen...
Anyways...
Stuff like this doesn't shock me, as people seek answers, and perhaps money. My own gf is "sort of" religious. She claims she's very, but obviously we have sex, so when she gripes about my lack of religious ties, I succinctly point that part out..."you're a nymph, let's bang, stop asking about what I am or what I'm not."
Odd that the kids born up in an Amish Lifestyle since birth who go through a "trial" or "rite of passage" process go back, most of the time, but christians who are asked to forsake basic biological demands can't, and sprayed all over the news, almost daily everywhere in the world, is another pediophile under the presumption of religious confidence. I feel they're the biggest hypocrites, personally. I attend church as most of my family is somewhat catholic...and yet, I can see these people talking crap about one another, cheating, lying and so on. Putting time in at church does not clear up sins, imo.
Maybe we're the better saints here? We've accepted our own moral scruples, accepted that we're human, bound to screw up, and are big enough to admit that?
This article doesn't anger me, or raise a hair on my head...it's unlikely I'd ever meet one of these women, or that we'd find each other mutually attractive, unless it was a Conquest similar to Cruel Intentions. Then I might be interested.
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Good point. Perhaps emotional stability is best measured in levels rather than being black or white. The Emotionally damaged woman I referred to was pretty nasty under the nice, friendly 0utward appearance - incredible mood swings and violent. It's quite possible that the self-proclaimed virgin I referred to was actually more emotionally stable, even if she was controlling and pushy. A good Don Juan can put an end to a woman's behavior problems toward him, but I was not one at that time.
I believe all women are emotionally unstable at varying degrees. It depends on how much of it you're willing to deal with. My current woman is very low maintenance which is really quite nice. She has her moments of break-downs and crying, but show me a woman that doesn't. The women who don't seem to show some form of emotional instability are likely much worse than the ones who cry at the drop of a hat.
I don't know if you've ever experienced this, but it's really interesting to see the woman who respects you interact with your AFC friends. I was amazed to see how lousy she treated men who wouldn't stand up for themselves, but she wouldn't DARE treat me in the same manner.
edited to fix that fvcking '0utwar' censor
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Oh yeah. Emotional suppost counts for ALOT! Good thing you told me this.[/sarcasm]blueguy said:
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I was being sarcastic because the whole notion of your parents relying on their 13year old kid for emotional support sounds stupid.blueguy said:
Welcome to my ignore list, you moron.
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