"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is there a more beautiful exercise than the pullup? This thread is nothing more than a tribute to the simple chin.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They certainly are good, thou for some reason i dont incldue them in my workout very often.

Have oyu tried doing pullups with your hands close together and your palms faceing you.
 

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I hate pullups

Cable flys used to be my fav.
 

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well dee, according to your sig, im wrong if i disagree with you :p

how do we know that you didnt stop being a god like figure at some point in the last 5 years?
 

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I do pullups on everything. On the bar in my closet, on holds at the rock wall, on rafters at Safeco Field, hanging from railings..

I love the pullup.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
well dee, according to your sig, im wrong if i disagree with you :p

how do we know that you didnt stop being a god like figure at some point in the last 5 years?

oh I did, that's why I have that in my sig to boost my ego up.


:D
 

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I can't manage to actually get much better at them. I increase on everything but them.
 

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mrRuckus said:
I can't manage to actually get much better at them. I increase on everything but them.
Do you have a bar at home? There's a technique called "greasing the groove" that can help a lot. Let's say you can do five max. Every time you walk by the bar in your house, do two or three easy. Since you never get tired, you can do as many as a hundred a day like this. Some people have doubled their max in a week or two doing this. I went from not being able to do any one-legged squats to two or three with each leg by greasing the groove.

Pavel Tsatsouline's "Naked Warrior" covers this well.
 

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greasing the groove...good idea man. Anywhere I see a bar I'll do some.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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doctoroxygen said:
Is there a more beautiful exercise than the pullup? This thread is nothing more than a tribute to the simple chin.
Yes. The Squat. The Deadlift. A chick with a banging ass and sexy legs doing straight legged deadlifts. IMO anyways.

Don't you agree?:trouble:
 

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For the record, pullups are with the palm facing away, chinups are with the palms facing you.
 

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Wide grip chin-ups with palms facing out? What category would that fall under with your logic?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wide Grip Chin Ups??? It's Wide Grip PULL UPS. I've never heard such poppycock!
 
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