davidsonj73
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What programming language does SoSuave use?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Programming Language Used By SoSuave
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HoneyHitter
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PHP, MySQL on the back-end, see:
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BillyPilgrim
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The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Pierce Manhammer
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It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.
However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:
If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:
site http://www.sosuave.net/forums “<quoted search terms>”
if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.
And hit ENTER.
and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
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FlexpertHamilton
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I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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FlexpertHamilton
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Huh, it was almost at the bottom of the first page for me when I search that. I hadn't quite remembered the original title so I originally I had searched specific keywords like "post", "photo" and "10" with other words in different combinations. If you don't know the exact title it's pretty hard.
Pierce Manhammer
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Well searches are literal, search engines have no comprehension they can find stuff, but searching for “fruit” instead of say “oranges” is kinda futile. 
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
BackInTheGame78
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Why, do you plan on becoming a developer now too?
davidsonj73
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No, I'm just wanting to learn some programming to perhaps start a website design business.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
