davidsonj73
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What programming language does SoSuave use?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Programming Language Used By SoSuave
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HoneyHitter
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PHP, MySQL on the back-end, see:
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BillyPilgrim
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The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Pierce Manhammer
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It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.
However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:
If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:
site http://www.sosuave.net/forums “<quoted search terms>”
if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.
And hit ENTER.
and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
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FlexpertHamilton
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I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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FlexpertHamilton
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Huh, it was almost at the bottom of the first page for me when I search that. I hadn't quite remembered the original title so I originally I had searched specific keywords like "post", "photo" and "10" with other words in different combinations. If you don't know the exact title it's pretty hard.
Pierce Manhammer
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Well searches are literal, search engines have no comprehension they can find stuff, but searching for “fruit” instead of say “oranges” is kinda futile. 
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
BackInTheGame78
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Why, do you plan on becoming a developer now too?
davidsonj73
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No, I'm just wanting to learn some programming to perhaps start a website design business.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
