davidsonj73
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What programming language does SoSuave use?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.
However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:
If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:
site://www.sosuave.net/forums <search terms>
if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.
And hit ENTER.
and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hrm site: https://www.sosuave.net/forums "post a pic"I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.

Huh, it was almost at the bottom of the first page for me when I search that. I hadn't quite remembered the original title so I originally I had searched specific keywords like "post", "photo" and "10" with other words in different combinations. If you don't know the exact title it's pretty hard.
Why, do you plan on becoming a developer now too?What programming language does SoSuave use?
No, I'm just wanting to learn some programming to perhaps start a website design business.Why, do you plan on becoming a developer now too?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.