davidsonj73
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What programming language does SoSuave use?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Programming Language Used By SoSuave
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
HoneyHitter
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PHP, MySQL on the back-end, see:
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BillyPilgrim
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The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
Pierce Manhammer
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It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.
However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:
If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:
site http://www.sosuave.net/forums “<quoted search terms>”
if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.
And hit ENTER.
and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
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FlexpertHamilton
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I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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FlexpertHamilton
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Huh, it was almost at the bottom of the first page for me when I search that. I hadn't quite remembered the original title so I originally I had searched specific keywords like "post", "photo" and "10" with other words in different combinations. If you don't know the exact title it's pretty hard.
Pierce Manhammer
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Well searches are literal, search engines have no comprehension they can find stuff, but searching for “fruit” instead of say “oranges” is kinda futile. 
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.
The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.
I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
BackInTheGame78
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Why, do you plan on becoming a developer now too?
davidsonj73
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No, I'm just wanting to learn some programming to perhaps start a website design business.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
