"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PHP, MySQL on the back-end, see:
 

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The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.

Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
 

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The one where you can't search any three letter word because it's deemed "too common" lmao.

Want to search "FDS"? Lol nope.
It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.

However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:

If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:

site http://www.sosuave.net/forums “<quoted search terms>”

if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.

And hit ENTER.

and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
 
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It’s the default search engine that ships with the forum software, it’s pretty weak.

However, as I have mentioned many times you can use google’s “site:” tag to limit your Google search to this site, thusly:

If Google is your default search engine in your url location bar type:

site://www.sosuave.net/forums <search terms>

if not go to google.com and type it in the search box.

And hit ENTER.

and you’ll get the results you want @BillyPilgrim
I am familiar with this, but even this method has pretty poor results. I spent about 20 minutes trying to find the "post a pic of a 10" thread on google and couldn't find it. Seems like many threads aren't even indexed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well searches are literal, search engines have no comprehension they can find stuff, but searching for “fruit” instead of say “oranges” is kinda futile. ;)

An LLM enhanced search engine might be able to understand the “spirit” of your search in the future, I’ve read all the engines are considering this.

The reason LLM searches are so powerful is that they come up with alternate search terms and run hundreds of these in parallel and choose the most relevant to compute the answers as best they can.

I’ve been tempted to put up an LLM and have it learn from SoSuave exclusively, that would be utterly hilarious to play with given some of the whacky stuff that’s been posted over the years.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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