Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
+1 on this post up some moref283000 said:Drum&Bass give us more! Your taste in women is exquisite good Sir!
+1 on this too. Not sure why another man's taste would bother you so much.f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
Definitely cute face and a decent rack. Her thighs are downright scrawny though, and I'm willing to bet that (like most asians) her butt matches. I mean sure you could probably play a nice game of checkers on it, but how anyone can smash a bony ass is completely beyond me. I find such posteriors to be disgusting and masculine, but if that's what does it for you, then keep plowing away (make sure to keep some ice handy for those bruises her ass bones give you).cordoncordon said:
An ironic deduction considering that it's low-class and trashy to post pics of your girlfriend just to prove a point on a forum. Just sayin'cordoncordon said:Typical trailer trash that middle American thinks is hot nowadays. Nothing remotely attractive about her. No class either.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Julius_Seizeher said:These women are great...if you're into women who take huge dumps and clog the toilet. Maybe you could get into a LTR with her and give her cutesie names like "Cloggasaurus" lol.
Get real, you'd have to have a **** like a baseball bat to get some of these whales off. There is nothing feminine about a big lazy fat ass, if I want to see a heifer I walk out to my barn. Get some standards for the love of God
Amen.Cr1msonKing said:The title is called "Post your favorite thick curvy girls."
Not "What type of girl is the most attractive"
Or "Everyone hate on what some of these dudes preferences are"
You make it sound as if we like fatties! We just like our women to have curves on them. We like our women to be easily distinguishable from a man by having a nice big feminine butt. We like our women to have some boobs.Cr1msonKing said:These are their standards, if they like their women a little bigger than what society says, then let them be.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.San Jose California said:All I'm doing is pointing out that these girls aren't hot to the average society's standards, and something must have triggered you guys to be seriously into these girls. Someone's gotta say it.
As well you should and I applaud you for that.teacha said:Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.
fcuk 'social pre-conditioning' by the mass-media, friends etc about whats right or wrong for you and start learning to think for yourelf. don't be a zombie...
Ignore them brother and let's get back on track. We're all waiting for you to post more pics!Drum&Bass said:The idiots who are causing bad vibes in this thread care more about my opinions of women than I do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.Drum&Bass said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.