"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.

Also, Im a total believer & totally respect in the " different strokes for different folks", but even still, I suppose Im just a LITTLE bit surprised that, in a 9 page thread, Im only the 2nd guy who even gave this woman any interest. But hey..different strokes...
You should go to the favelas in Brazil. Try the Northeast section or the Rio area of the country. Take some serious protection with you. You will need it. Avoid the South and chic places like Floripa. In other words, avoid the nice clean parts where the people look like this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGVgAsZp15c&feature=related

Funny how Americans only see the worst parts of places. Then they celebrate it. Most of the comments about that fat Favela creature are from? - Americans! The video I show the comments are all Brazilian. Interesting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zappati said:
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.

Also, Im a total believer & totally respect in the " different strokes for different folks", but even still, I suppose Im just a LITTLE bit surprised that, in a 9 page thread, Im only the 2nd guy who even gave this woman any interest. But hey..different strokes...
She is my number 1 pick as well love Andressa Soares.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CuriousGirl,

Kelly Brook is a babe and who knows you might have been in that TV part they will be filming too and would have been discovered and would have been going on to fame and riches.... gosh darn it!

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I've just had the most awesome/horrific news, Kelly Brook, my joint second biggest ever crush, will be filming a tv episode in the gym of the club I work NEXT WEEK! But I'm in France that day, when I would have usually had a shift, I'm SO upset.

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2009/09/17/article-1213941-0674CAFB000005DC-979_306x503.jpg

*sigh*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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:up: You really outdid yourself D&B! That was your best one yet.

This thread brings back memories of a girl from my past. She was just perfectly proportioned (slim waist, big behind, beautiful face, beautiful blonde hair, short but not too short, all woman). She turned heads everyday. D&B, you being an expert of curvy girls you know what I mean when you look at one and you say to yourself damn she looks like a woman! One that you put right next to another female and makes the other female look like a boy in terms of body and femininity.

I treated her like nothing, and she loved me...I am cursed to this day.

The thing with us curvy women lovers that most people don't understand is that it's hard for us to have it any other way. I personally have gone without dating for longs periods of time because I couldn't find the right women. It's like you see a good curvy woman and it's instant attraction where as I could be looking at the cheerleaders of the football team and they do nothing for me. I had plenty of women in my life shoot me signals that I ignored because they didn't do nothing for me whereas I found myself attracted to thick curvy women that most guys wouldn't consider beautiful or hot but they just had the curvy bodies that i'm attracted to.

It's a real obsession. It's a lot worse than those that say they have "yellow fever" and only date asian women. Good thick curvy women are extremely hard to find whereas there are hundreds of millions of asian women out there for you.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Drum&Bass again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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